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Old 01-15-2020, 03:01 AM
 
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She broke up with me after 3 month relationship and moved on with someone else in a week so I went in no contact but she always try to indirectly contact me like following on social media , watching stories and like posts. She reached out after 6 months for holiday and then asked me about my dating life and even said she is happy that I am not dating anyone and told me she is happy with someone and offered me friendship i said I can't.. And I told her to not contact me if she is happy with someone else I need to move on and I removed her from social media. But she always try to direct / indirect contact me and she said she don't remember anything ,she don't care about me she is happy with someone else just wanted to ask how I am doing and if I am going through pain and heartbreak it's my problem..I should stop being victim

I finally removed her from social media but it hearts that she never loved me and moved on like I didn't matter ever.and i am struggling here thinking I wasn't enough i am not worthy..It hurts
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Old 01-15-2020, 03:33 AM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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You did great. Just stay strong and move on. You don't need her playing with your feelings...
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Old 01-15-2020, 10:40 AM
 
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Sometimes people like to play the puppet master. Continue to ignore her. You don't have to be her puppet.


And really...it's not about how worthy you are, or not. It sounds like she's kind of mean and vindictive. That's about who she is. Not you.
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Old 01-15-2020, 10:42 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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She broke up with me after 3 month relationship and moved on with someone else in a week so I went in no contact but she always try to indirectly contact me like following on social media , watching stories and like posts. She reached out after 6 months for holiday and then asked me about my dating life and even said she is happy that I am not dating anyone and told me she is happy with someone and offered me friendship i said I can't.. And I told her to not contact me if she is happy with someone else I need to move on and I removed her from social media. But she always try to direct / indirect contact me and she said she don't remember anything ,she don't care about me she is happy with someone else just wanted to ask how I am doing and if I am going through pain and heartbreak it's my problem..I should stop being victim

I finally removed her from social media but it hearts that she never loved me and moved on like I didn't matter ever.and i am struggling here thinking I wasn't enough i am not worthy..It hurts
You didn't matter to her. That's obvious, based on her behavior toward you, and it should p i s s you off.

That alone should motivate you to finally stop feeling sorry for yourself and understand that you are better off without this person using you to prop up her ego.
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Old 01-15-2020, 03:57 PM
 
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She broke up with me after 3 month relationship and moved on with someone else in a week so I went in no contact but she always try to indirectly contact me like following on social media , watching stories and like posts. She reached out after 6 months for holiday and then asked me about my dating life and even said she is happy that I am not dating anyone and told me she is happy with someone and offered me friendship i said I can't.. And I told her to not contact me if she is happy with someone else I need to move on and I removed her from social media. But she always try to direct / indirect contact me and she said she don't remember anything ,she don't care about me she is happy with someone else just wanted to ask how I am doing and if I am going through pain and heartbreak it's my problem..I should stop being victim

I finally removed her from social media but it hearts that she never loved me and moved on like I didn't matter ever.and i am struggling here thinking I wasn't enough i am not worthy..It hurts
She broke it off.

Let that boat sale bro!
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Old 01-15-2020, 04:00 PM
 
Location: Northern Wisconsin
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This woman is cruel. Avoid like the plague. Your breakup avoids far worse misery in the future.
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Old 01-15-2020, 04:02 PM
 
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Don’t let someone who would treat you this way have power over you OP.
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Old 01-15-2020, 04:35 PM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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I finally removed her from social media but it hearts that she never loved me and moved on like I didn't matter ever.and i am struggling here thinking I wasn't enough i am not worthy..It hurts
This is not what you want to hear, but you were only together for 3 months. It does hurt, but that's not a romance for the ages. She wasn't right for you, and you have to move past her.
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Old 01-30-2020, 02:26 PM
 
Location: Los Angeles
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Hi- are you in Los Angeles by any chance? I am working on a project about this exact topic.
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Old 02-10-2020, 08:16 AM
 
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She tries to manipulate you, but you are doing right when you are not connecting with her. You don't need to take her actions serious and try to understand that anyway this relationships would never be the same.
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