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I don't know the answer. But I'm sorry you're going through this. Unfortunately, I think you're going to have to write him off--he's unreliable, and you don't need the stress of trying to figure him out. (Honestly, he sounds like he was a jerk to you even when he was in the picture).
Let him go, and focus on getting well. Stage 3 is not a death sentence. You can beat this.
I'm really sorry to hear about your illness. I know that when my mom was diagnosed with breast cancer, we tried our best to surround her work as much positivity as possible. So in your case, you need to try to cut anyone and everyone and everything negative out of your life, which includes this lousy ex of yours, who seemingly never cared enough about you when you were together, so it's no wonder he doesn't care now. You should seek out online cancer support groups, there are many out there, to talk about what you're going through with people in a similar situation as you. The Facebook support groups that my mom joined helped her a lot when she was going through her treatments.
First, sorry about your health and good luck beating it. Second, all bets are off even with a normal ex, and your isn't normal. You have to get it through your head he doesn't care about you....for whatever reason. I have been through this.
The best thing you can do is ignore him and don't ever speak to him again when you get better.
I agree with Bearsdad and others. My ex-wife and I were together for 7 years as well. I know for a fact she would never be there for me if I needed her and in fact I would never call her after what she put me through. I'm glad you have other people to support you through this. Save the energy you're giving him for your fight to beat this!
I'm sorry to hear about your diagnosis. Wishing you the best with your treatment.
His reaction to the news of your diagnosis is disgusting, which is all the more reason for you to forget about him.
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