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Old 08-17-2008, 03:05 PM
 
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Monogomy is a myth we have all wanted to believe in. In fact, we believe in it until we grow up and realize it was just a childhood fairy tale, like "Cinderella."

"And they lived happily ever after..."
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Old 08-17-2008, 03:22 PM
 
Location: Incognito
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I have never cheated in my life. I just didn't have the need to. Now my wife told me that she cheated on an ex boyfriend to get back at him for cheating on her. Ever since she told me that I raised a yellow flag.
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Old 08-17-2008, 03:27 PM
 
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almost but cuddled instead? does that count? lol
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Old 08-17-2008, 03:50 PM
 
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I was cheated on in HS, had a chance to "cheat back" 1 wk later, didn't do it............best thing I've ever done.

Monogamy should be our way and we shouldn't compare ourselves to the animal kingdom. Thats what separates us from monkeys.

Those who cheat are weak.........or bow legged!
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Old 08-18-2008, 02:01 PM
 
Location: Irving
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I cheated on my g/f in college...she was 10 hours away and this girl was beautiful. She found out because she saw my IM history one day while i was at work. I was genuinely sorry but after about 3 months of being distant we broke up.

Oh wells...cheating sucks and happens for many reasons.
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Old 08-19-2008, 08:11 AM
 
Location: Way up high
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yes and yes
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Old 08-19-2008, 09:35 AM
 
Location: Naptowne, Alaska
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Never cheated. Never will. Been cheated on once. It sucked at the time...but I'm glad she's gone. She has put 5 or 6 guys through living hell since! ahahahahahaahahahah!
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Old 08-19-2008, 10:01 AM
 
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Originally Posted by Mr.Cat View Post
I have never cheated in my life. I just didn't have the need to. Now my wife told me that she cheated on an ex boyfriend to get back at him for cheating on her. Ever since she told me that I raised a yellow flag.
Sorry to hear that, since your wife told you that, you've become somewhat more ontheedge with her. I understand your reservation, that perhaps, she would do the same out of revenge, etc.

But this may help you get past the yellow flag: how long ago did she cheat on this exBF of hers? I'm asking that to make you think that perhaps, when she did that, it was decades ago, perhaps when she was less mature about handling relationships -- and I'm sure that now, looking back, she thinks that was a dumb move on her part to do "as her ex" did to her.

I hope that your yellow flag does not prevent her from getting close to you. Her admittance of having cheated on an ex before is probably her way to be more honest and open to you.
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Old 08-19-2008, 10:25 AM
 
Location: The REAL WORLD.
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I've never had a sexual affair when I was married but did go out with a younger single woman. When I finally got divorced (for other reasons) I went out with 2 married women, one younger and one my age. I did end up having an affair with the older one.
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Old 08-19-2008, 10:29 AM
 
Location: San Diego, CA
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I have cheated when I found I was being cheated on....revenge cheating.
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