so, inspired by another thread about a guy making a comment about a girl finally commenting on his picture, it reminded me of some potential red flags I've noticed and been wondering about.
- if a guy doesn't ask your name, or introduce himself. I think this is weird, if you've been talking to someone, seem to like each other, they seem to be interested, ask a lot of questions but never ask your name.
of course theirs could be in their profile or in their username, but I still think it's customary and polite for them to ask you, if yours is not also visible. It seems to be a sign of interest, if they do ask, but if they don't, it seems like maybe they don't want to get too personal, and I'm more wary of those ppl. most of the guys I've dated from online asked my name lol.
- If they don't try to text you. It used to annoy me when guys would want to text, especially right away. It tends to stress me out, as I don't want to have to go from stranger to already have my number, can text me anytime and ask me anything, expect me to respond all the time, lol...but now, I've noticed most guys don't give out their number freely or immediately like they used to, and that also seems weird, like I have to wonder why, is it bc they're dating around and don't want to be texted at a "bad" time?
anyway, do these seem like red flags? have any more to add?