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Well it finally happened, my ex bf who ghosted me 3 months ago texted me earlier this evening. He said he was very sorry for the way he acted and that I was one of the most amazing, honest and beautiful people he’s ever known. He then followed up with another text saying he wasn’t saying that to trying to get back together, he just wants me to know.
I didn’t respond.
Someone who could treat you the way he did and then think he could appear months later and apologize isn't deserving of a response. I'm sure you are amazing, honest and beautiful but coming from him, that means nothing. Good on you for not responding. That is the ultimate in satisfaction.
Someone who could treat you the way he did and then think he could appear months later and apologize isn't deserving of a response. I'm sure you are amazing, honest and beautiful but coming from him, that means nothing. Good on you for not responding. That is the ultimate in satisfaction.
To think I can be gotten back with a simple text like that after 3 months! Ha!
Update: He texted me Monday night saying "how are you?" and then followed up with another text saying "How is your family? Is everyone ok?" at that point I just decided to answer the question in a way that would not continue the conversation, I replied saying everyone is ok, and hoped his family is ok too, he replied saying he's ok, things are getting better and that his family is ok. That was it. The reason I responded was because I just didn't want to seem bitter, I'm in a much better place now and felt strong enough that I can respond in a way that would let him know I'm ok but do not wish to continue to speak to him further.
BTW he knows my family and I are ok, he still follows me on instagram.
Update: He texted me Monday night saying "how are you?" and then followed up with another text saying "How is your family? Is everyone ok?" at that point I just decided to answer the question in a way that would not continue the conversation, I replied saying everyone is ok, and hoped his family is ok too, he replied saying he's ok, things are getting better and that his family is ok. That was it. The reason I responded was because I just didn't want to seem bitter, I'm in a much better place now and felt strong enough that I can respond in a way that would let him know I'm ok but do not wish to continue to speak to him further.
BTW he knows my family and I are ok, he still follows me on instagram.
How irritating. I would remove him from any of your social media. He lost the privilege to know how you are after he treated you the way he did, imo.
I removed him from all other social media, but he does still follow me on instagram, I don't follow him though.
Why wouldn't you block him? By phone AND on IG??
Why give ANY access to a guy who ghosted you after 7 months of "I love you" dating?
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