I'm having issues with my boyfriend and his adult son. Am I wrong? [MERGED] (men, love)
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Thanks. I will see how things progress but if I see that they still want me to pay all the bills with the excuse of the pandemic, then I guess my only choice is to tell them to leave.
My boyfriend does help around the house but he won’t make his son do anything. But he will ask me to do things. Not his son though.
Thanks. I will see how things progress but if I see that they still want me to pay all the bills with the excuse of the pandemic, then I guess my only choice is to tell them to leave.
My boyfriend does help around the house but he won’t make his son do anything. But he will ask me to do things. Not his son though.
You want to see how this progresses? For most people, this would have been the last straw:
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So he complained and got angry because he said he was starving and that I'm selfish for not buying enough food.
And asking you to cook something for his adult freeloading son?
She's still there because it's her place. The question is why are the two slackers still there? What could she possibly see in this man? He sounds like a loser raising a loser.
I think a one bedroom apartment with three people living in it isn't quite good enough for a *professional* so son should find a living arrangement more befitting his position in life.
Perhaps a van...down by the river, or a cardboard box.
Yes I meant there as in still in the relationship. Clearly she is scared to be alone, judging from the replies of continuing on and seeing how things go.
Yes I meant there as in still in the relationship. Clearly she is scared to be alone, judging from the replies of continuing on and seeing how things go.
I agree. It certainly isn't because he's treating her well.
This is where I think every young woman needs to get issued an auntie or abuela or similar. Someone who will say
"For crying out loud, dear, what on earth are you thinking! If you don't tell him to get his happy (*&^(*^ out of there I will! And tomorrow I'm bringing you Uncle Art, Uncle Jesse, and Jesse's two prizefighter sons over to "help" them move out!"
This is where I think every young woman needs to get issued an auntie or abuela or similar. Someone who will say
"For crying out loud, dear, what on earth are you thinking! If you don't tell him to get his happy (*&^(*^ out of there I will! And tomorrow I'm bringing you Uncle Art, Uncle Jesse, and Jesse's two prizefighter sons over to "help" them move out!"
The Tony Soprano eviction might be a little excessive.
The Tony Soprano eviction might be a little excessive.
Then again, that may be what it takes. The OP's bf may tell her how selfish she is, promising to pay her down the road....and then asking her to make some lunch for him and his 'boy'.
The Tony Soprano eviction might be a little excessive.
Things like this often go a little smoother if there's some muscle in evidence, especially when dealing with two trashy low class no account men who've been sponging off the father's girlfriend for months or years now.
OP, you need to pick better boyfriends. Being alone is way better than being taken advantage of.
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