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Old 05-20-2020, 03:28 PM
 
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She was ditched by him like an old towel with no explanation whatsoever, and he’s waltzed back into her life saying sorry and telling her he still loves her.

She’s accepted his friend request.

I honestly find it hard to believe she, knowing better than anyone what he's capable of, has done this.

The only reason I can think of is that she still likes him.

What do you think?
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Old 05-20-2020, 03:32 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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She was ditched by him like an old towel with no explanation whatsoever, and he’s waltzed back into her life saying sorry and telling her he still loves her.

She’s accepted his friend request.

I honestly find it hard to believe she, knowing better than anyone what he's capable of, has done this.

The only reason I can think of is that she still likes him.

What do you think?
She accepted a friend request, not a marriage proposal.
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Old 05-20-2020, 03:37 PM
 
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She accepted a friend request, not a marriage proposal.
OK...

It's not just a friend request from say someone she's just met, though.
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Old 05-20-2020, 03:39 PM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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I honestly find it hard to believe she, knowing better than anyone what he's capable of, has done this.
You've given no reason to doubt her judgement.
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Old 05-20-2020, 03:43 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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OK...

It's not just a friend request from say someone she's just met, though.
Yeah, but what are you going to do? She's an adult.
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Old 05-20-2020, 03:47 PM
 
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You've given no reason to doubt her judgement.
What do you mean?
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Old 05-20-2020, 03:48 PM
 
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Yeah, but what are you going to do? She's an adult.
There's nothing I can do or say. Nor do I want to control what she does.

My fears are that she still has feelings for him.
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Old 05-20-2020, 03:51 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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There's nothing I can do or say. Nor do I want to control what she does.

My fears are that she still has feelings for him.
And again, what are you going to do if she does? What CAN you do?

Has she asked you for your thoughts on their relationship?
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Old 05-20-2020, 03:53 PM
 
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Some people need to learn things the hard way. Maybe the ex learned that he was an idiot. Who knows?
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Old 05-20-2020, 03:54 PM
 
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And again, what are you going to do if she does? What CAN you do?

Has she asked you for your thoughts on their relationship?
In all the years after it happened, she came to me asking for my opinion and to tell me what was going on in her mind. I was there, and I continue to be there for her. Telling me about how she had issues in her relationships, all the pain and hurt.

I just started to think that maybe she had finally moved on when she was with her boyfriend 3-4 months ago.

No matter what she does or how she feels, I will always be there.
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