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I’ve been with this particular guy since last year and since we’ve been together I have posted him on my social media. I have talked about him as well as my love for him on social media but he has never done the same for me on his. He has always made post as if he were single but I figured it’s just Facebook. Plus in real life he has done things for me as if we are together. I have a daughter and he has always treated her like his own. He calls and checks on us. Sexually, Mod cut.. We’ve had unprotected sex etc but we broke up and some weeks later after the break up. I decided that I missed him so I called him but he had to ask who I was when he picked up. He didn’t even recognize my voice but it could have been because I called late and he was in the middle of sleeping. While I talked to him on the phone I heard him talking to a girl in the background. I also heard a soft feminine voice. He was asking her to stay the night with him and to cancel her Lyft all while on the phone with me but I didn’t care because I was gonna get him back which I have now but it’s the same thing. I post him but I’m not on his social media. The girl who I believe was at his house that day still texts him and he replies. Wouldn’t you just block her and ghost her? Or just tell her that you’re back with your ex(me)?
Last edited by PJSaturn; 05-22-2020 at 03:16 PM..
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I’ve been with this particular guy since last year and since we’ve been together I have posted him on my social media. I have talked about him as well as my love for him on social media but he has never done the same for me on his. He has always made post as if he were single but I figured it’s just Facebook. Plus in real life he has done things for me as if we are together. I have a daughter and he has always treated her like his own. He calls and checks on us. Sexually, [Snip.]. We’ve had unprotected sex etc but we broke up and some weeks later after the break up.
I decided that I missed him so I called him but he had to ask who I was when he picked up. He didn’t even recognize my voice but it could have been because I called late and he was in the middle of sleeping. While I talked to him on the phone I heard him talking to a girl in the background. I also heard a soft feminine voice. He was asking her to stay the night with him and to cancel her Lyft all while on the phone with me but I didn’t care because I was gonna get him back which I have now but it’s the same thing. I post him but I’m not on his social media. The girl who I believe was at his house that day still texts him and he replies. Wouldn’t you just block her and ghost her? Or just tell her that you’re back with your ex(me)?
He doesn't want the other women to know about you. You are not his girlfriend. You may be the primary female he spends time with, but you are not in a committed relationship.
Wouldn’t you just block her and ghost her? Or just tell her that you’re back with your ex(me)?
No, YOU should block him. He is NOT back with you. He probably only uses you for sex.
You SHOULD use protection, though - or you want another child that will grow up with no father?
You both seem to be very immature and irresponsible...
Have you had the committed relationship talk? If no, then you are not in a committed relationship. It's obvious he's dating others - and most likely having sex with at least 1 other than you.
YOU need to decide what you want? Do you want exclusivity while dating? Do you want an open relationship (which you have)? and what does he want? Aside from sex, what is he looking for from you?
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