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I was talking to someone for two weeks, last week we began to communicate less & less. He was the one to initiate contact with me every time, I typically don’t make the first move. We used to video chat quite a bit during the week, last week we only did once. The first time he asked last week to video chat, I told him I wanted to reschedule. We ended up doing it Friday & spoke for around 2 hours. His last words were “Well, maybe we can do this again tomorrow” and I did not deny or confirm. We went without talking 2 days last week but he has not attempted to contact me since the call Friday. Neither have I obviously, I was perturbed & blocked him from Snapchat. I blocked him a while back on Instagram, he still has me added on PlayStation messaging. He can still message me on there but hasn’t. He’s being a jerk am I right?
Every post you’ve made on C-D, you accuse others of being in the wrong, when you exhibit the same or worse behaviours. You admit to behaving poorly yet you accuse others of being jerks or bullying. How can everyone else be a jerk and you a victim when you admit to the lousy attitude you have? It doesn’t add up.
Do you notice a pattern in your behavior? It's the catty girls at work, it's your lousy neighbor, now it's this guy who suddenly doesn't want to talk to you anymore.... Do you see that maybe the issue is with you, and not everyone else in the world? I am just wondering if you even see that it could be - you?
I was talking to someone for two weeks, last week we began to communicate less & less. He was the one to initiate contact with me every time, I typically don’t make the first move. We used to video chat quite a bit during the week, last week we only did once. The first time he asked last week to video chat, I told him I wanted to reschedule. We ended up doing it Friday & spoke for around 2 hours. His last words were “Well, maybe we can do this again tomorrow” and I did not deny or confirm. We went without talking 2 days last week but he has not attempted to contact me since the call Friday. Neither have I obviously, I was perturbed & blocked him from Snapchat. I blocked him a while back on Instagram, he still has me added on PlayStation messaging. He can still message me on there but hasn’t. He’s being a jerk am I right?
Did he ghost me?
Maybe technically, but in reality he was probably just reacting to your indifference.
Read what you wrote ... he's pleasant but you don't reciprocate; you don't initiate; you block him on multiple platforms but then talk about contact on Playstation? LOLOLOLOL
When you act disinterested in someone, they won't keep coming around forever.
Why should he have to do all the work? Sounds to me like you might be the jerk. You could have initiated at least once. And why block him? Are you piqued and trying to punish him? News flash.....two weeks isn't enough to make a normal guy care about being blocked. He may not even know. He might not have tried to contact you at all.
So you made no effort to contact him at all, making him do all the work? SOunds like you had no real interest in him. He was right to cut off communication. You didnt really want to talk to him.
He probably got put off by your lack of enthusiasm, and then to top it off you blocked him so yea I think anyone in their right mind would do what he did.
It sounds like he stopped contacting you because he has healthy self-respect. If a woman doesn't show some genuine enthusiasm, reciprocity, and initiative, why would he be interested?
And during this time how often did you meet in person?
Assuming it was zero as implied above... that is also the answer to what you (thought you) had: nothing.
Don't waste time online.
There’s social distancing so no other choice
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