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In this day and age you could be sir Galahad and still be labeled a creepy stalker
He DID state that he lives in a place where arranged marriages are the norm. I think it's just that neither of these 2 people have much 'courting' and dating experience...so it's awkward for both of them.
Neither of them WANT to be embarrassed, and probably both of them WERE embarrassed. Like I said earlier, he needs a do-over.
I really don't think 'creepy' was a factor. Mostly...it was confusion. IMHO.
someone told me i might have made her anxious about this. this is a headache.
i dont even know if she knows that i like her.
That's why you need to just be normal and DE-ESCALATE.
Imagine if you were in HER place, and think about how you would want her to act around you now if she did what you did. Stop trying to guess what she's feeling and thinking and just be courteous and friendly.
After you do that and re-establish a friendly rapport, you can think about trying to show interest.
1. was my nervousness obvious to her?
2. did i come off weird?
3. some friends told me i may have hurt her feeling sfor brushing her off like that. is that possible?
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