Are these signs of a troubled marriage

[mrstewart]

Get a voice activated recorder in your house! Check on the laws in your state about taping phone conversations when you are not a participant.

Put another recorder in her car.

If you are this concerned, I would just make her leave.

Hang in there.

[jezzuh_kuh]

i have the exact same problem.

"ill be back in an hour" turns into 3 hours.. and god only knows where he went...

he wont leave his phone in the same room as me, with fear that i will look through it, and when he is on the phone with a girl, he lies and says its someone else.

i know he talks to his ex's (very personally, and to me thats cheating) and he is ALWAYS on his phone, when im around or not.

i think that is a big sign of a troubled relationship. if i were you, i would confront her about it. i know thats what i should do, i just dont have the courage. but you need to man up and say something so you dont look like a fool in the end.

[Roselvr]

Originally Posted by jezzuh_kuh

i have the exact same problem.

"ill be back in an hour" turns into 3 hours.. and god only knows where he went...

he wont leave his phone in the same room as me, with fear that i will look through it, and when he is on the phone with a girl, he lies and says its someone else.

i know he talks to his ex's (very personally, and to me thats cheating) and he is ALWAYS on his phone, when im around or not.

i think that is a big sign of a troubled relationship. if i were you, i would confront her about it. i know thats what i should do, i just dont have the courage. but you need to man up and say something so you dont look like a fool in the end.

Sorry but you don't have a relationship. Move on to someone who doesn't give you a reason to wonder what they are doing.. unless it's you? My son's ex GF didn't trust him for anything even when he worked.

[Bjorn_Ironside32]

dude, put a tracking device on her car or something.

but yea, those are signs of her cheating on you.

you might as well do something quick man, or else you'll see cVm in your bed from the other guy.

[norcalmom101]

Cheating and doing drugs. Get an attorney fast, you will need full custody of your kids. Don't say a word to tip her off.

[Mr.Cat]

Be afraid, be very afraid!