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Old 07-05-2020, 07:32 PM
 
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Hey y’all. I’m training this new girl at work. We were getting to know each other and asking questions. I told her I live with my brother and his girlfriend. She said “oh cool, are you seeing anyone?” Does this indicate interest or not necessarily? We were asking each other’s questions so maybe she was just curious since I mentioned my brother dating? Thanks y’all

 
Old 07-05-2020, 07:48 PM
 
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Why do you need to know? Are *you* interested? Are you okay with dating coworkers?

I assume if she's interested, she'll show further interest.
 
Old 07-05-2020, 08:16 PM
 
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Hey y’all. I’m training this new girl at work. We were getting to know each other and asking questions. I told her I live with my brother and his girlfriend. She said “oh cool, are you seeing anyone?” Does this indicate interest or not necessarily? We were asking each other’s questions so maybe she was just curious since I mentioned my brother dating? Thanks y’all
First, OP, is your ex girlfriend out of the picture completely, the one that was contacting you last week?

As far as this new girl at work... do your job of training her, don't "look" for signs if she likes you or not, be professional.... don't you want to keep your job?

(Side note - Amazes me how many posts on here are about picking up on co-workers. That used to be called sexual harassment back in my day!)
 
Old 07-05-2020, 08:18 PM
 
Location: southern california
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In my experience that was not so -she just wanted to warn them
 
Old 07-05-2020, 08:19 PM
 
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Lol. Of course not.
 
Old 07-05-2020, 08:28 PM
 
Location: Central IL
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Geeezzz...I would never ask a coworker, especially someone training me, if they were seeing anyone. People these days are just asking for trouble. Sure, go ahead and date your trainee - except in some regards you're her semi-boss. You may not be able to fire her but can't you find ANYONE else to date?

Is there something about these guys that they can only see a woman if she's right under their nose?
 
Old 07-05-2020, 08:31 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Too early to tell.

She may have just been trying to figure out your life situation, you know, for general information about the people she will be working with.
 
Old 07-05-2020, 09:53 PM
 
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Thanks for the helpful responses. For the judgey ones, the question was baiting answers regarding the situation itself. I don’t need life advice and pointers from you guys
 
Old 07-05-2020, 09:56 PM
 
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Y’all act like it’s your daughter I’m asking out lmao. I don’t understand the passion behind these answers for real
 
Old 07-05-2020, 10:01 PM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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If you don't need advice then don't ask silly question and act clueless. Figure it out yourself...

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