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Old 06-27-2020, 11:07 PM
 
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Are you saying when you chat tomorrow you are going to ask her about getting together early on Friday?

As for my experience, I don't remember a holiday or holiday weekend ever getting in the way of meeting someone new or getting together with them for the first time.

You've had one conversation. Have some more conversations this week, get to know each other some more before asking to meet already. Holiday weekend or not.
I keep forgetting I am off on Friday so I may mention Thursday evening.
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Old 06-28-2020, 01:52 PM
 
Location: Reno, NV
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Yes, I've met women on holidays. Just ask if they have plans, and if they don't, ask if they'd like to meet and do something (but be specific).
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Old 06-28-2020, 03:16 PM
 
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Yes, I met up with my ex on Easter. Does that count?
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Old 06-28-2020, 07:22 PM
 
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I keep forgetting I am off on Friday so I may mention Thursday evening.
Yes, but have some more conversations with her first. You've only had one conversation (was that by phone, I hope?).

She could turn down a meeting only because it is too soon. Nothing to do with a holiday or not.
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Old 06-28-2020, 08:13 PM
 
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Yes, but have some more conversations with her first. You've only had one conversation (was that by phone, I hope?).

She could turn down a meeting only because it is too soon. Nothing to do with a holiday or not.

Yes through the bumble app
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Old 06-28-2020, 08:18 PM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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I would not waste time. I found that most women have already made their plans for holiday weekends within one week of the holiday.
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Old 06-28-2020, 08:22 PM
 
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I would not waste time. I found that most women have already made their plans for holiday weekends within one week of the holiday.
That's what I always figured too lol That's why sometimes if a major holiday is approaching I will just wait until after like Thanksgiving weekend or Christmas if it falls on a friday
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Old 06-28-2020, 09:30 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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That's what I always figured too lol That's why sometimes if a major holiday is approaching I will just wait until after like Thanksgiving weekend or Christmas if it falls on a friday
July 4th isn't going to be a major holiday like it can be in non-pandemic years, though, with large gatherings etc.

Just proceed with her as you would anyone else at any other time, and let go of the mental gymnastics.
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Old 06-28-2020, 09:34 PM
 
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Yes through the bumble app
Was this a video chat through this bumble app?

My whole point is not so much that it is a holiday weekend, but how many phone/video chats have you had before you suggest meeting in person.
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Old 06-28-2020, 11:11 PM
 
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Was this a video chat through this bumble app?

My whole point is not so much that it is a holiday weekend, but how many phone/video chats have you had before you suggest meeting in person.
She brought up meeting when we chatted on friday afternoon and sent a text tonight but didnt talk. So I will just send a text tomorrow suggesting meeting one day this week
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