My dear son (marrying, family, sex, pregnant)

[BirdieBelle]

Originally Posted by oldcarguy49

Being an internet forum I was expecting some trash talk. I especially enjoyed the one about my son being a pimp. Special.
Some very un-Christian and dark thoughts out there.

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And spare us the tongue-clucking on Christianity. The fact that you would even think this idea is ok speaks to the household that raised a boy who thought it was fine to have unprotected sex with two sisters.

And then pass one off to his father.

[SD4020]

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Back to the original story, at least they are keeping it all in the family.

[SVTLightning]

Originally Posted by oldcarguy49

Being an internet forum I was expecting some trash talk. I especially enjoyed the one about my son being a pimp. Special.
Some very un-Christian and dark thoughts out there.

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lol Trying to claim the high road when you have a son sleeping around like he is and you just as ready to jump into the mess!!!!! smh

so if you date her, and she has your grandchild, how does that work when he starts calling you dad? no kid, I am your grandfather? lol

[ellie]

I think it’s a great plan. No sarcasm.

[Ruth4Truth]

Originally Posted by Nut4sweets

Oh dear! :-) One sure way to teach your son to grow up and face his responsibilities is to let him support both women and children that he impregnated and fathered. Find yourself another woman to be with.

Hey, now there's a concept! Expect Sonny to grow up and face his responsibilities! Two kids by two women who are sisters, making the kids brothers and cousins at the same time. At least if the OP declines the offer to get involved with someone young enough to be his daughter, that sister's child won't have to worry about being his own uncle. Or son. Or whatever.

Is anyone here familiar with the song "I am my own grandpa"? It's hilarious. About a somewhat similar situation.

And OP, while you're at it, you might twist your son's arm to use birth control in the future. Whether the women say they have it covered or not. Did you miss that opportunity when he was in his teens? Or did you assume his high school "health" class covered it?

[Rose998]

Mod cut. I guess you taught him what you know? And, this would never happen in my family. Sorry, just no.

[elnina]

Originally Posted by Rose998

[Snip.] I guess you taught him what you know? And, this would never happen in my family. Sorry, just no.

I think you nailed it. Very low level of responsibility and insight seem to run in the family. The father is also just an opportunist lusting after an easy prey - a vulnerable woman that is pregnant and dumped by his son.
There is no remorse or concern in his posts. No great drama according to him. Dear son didn't do anything wrong...

[ocpaul20]

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Well, you DID ask for comment so what did you expect? This kind of situation is not normal so everyone is telling you there are problems with your thinking and expectations going forward.

If it is a true situation, then the ramifications are severe for everyone, particularly the kids - unless as you say there are not going to be any kids produced. If there are no kids, then many of the problems we see are going away, and then you could just see it as a relationship with a woman who has had a previous husband/boyfriend.

So, it just depends on how it pans out.

[SD4020]

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There it is. “Special thinking?” You’re [OP] the one with the absurd story and scenario. What did you expect would happen? We are the crazy ones? You’re the one with the vivid imagination.

[Threestep2]

Some imagination and surprised thoughts floating around here.

A friend's best friend of 50+ years is married to his deceased wife's younger sister who is 20 years his junior. The arrangement has worked to everyone's advantage for years.