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Originally Posted by 87112
So negative but it’s reality thanks for the head shake. I think I will give up and consider it another one gone.
Thanks for the replies everyone.
So many people have a depressing outlook on life. Unless it’s a guaranteed home run most encourage you to not even try.
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I posted earlier, though, that it doesn't hurt to try. The thing is, what a lot of people do (women, as well as men), is project what they
want to see onto the object of their interest, before the ever get to know them. And even when they're in the beginning stages of getting to know them, they're still projecting dreamy things onto them.
I was just pointing that out, that's all. And I think you should be prepared, for the fact that she could turn down your lunch invitation, because, since you know nothing about her, she may have a preference for some other type of guy. People tend to have preferred "types". But who knows, she might be open to you, especially if, as someone else suggested, you find a way to collaborate with her on a project at work, or find some other way to break the ice. It seems fairly clear, that your first attempt did
not "break the ice".
Are there any holiday parties coming up at your office?