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i've fallen in love with two amazing guys. they don't know about each other and it's really hard on me. i've tried to only love one, but that hurts too much. i can't live without either one and i'm confused on what i should do. they both bring out the best in both of me but different sides. what do you guys think i should do?
i've fallen in love with two amazing guys. they don't know about each other and it's really hard on me. i've tried to only love one, but that hurts too much. i can't live without either one and i'm confused on what i should do. they both bring out the best in both of me but different sides. what do you guys think i should do?
Keep dating both of them w/o the other one knowing, and wait for one of them to find out, and it will all fall apart. But at least you'll have the best of both worlds for a short period of time, rather than only the best of one world for a long time.
Be honest, tell them you can not commit to either one. DO NOT tell either its because there is "another" just say you care for them deeply, but you've been hurt in the past or that you just like to take things slowly. Maybe they will both be patient maybe not. Eventually, as time passes and you get to know them better, my guess is one will come ahead of the other. Or maybe you will decide neither is the "full package" and you will find someone who does not fall short and encompasses the qualities both these guys do and more.
Well I think obviously you are going to have to think really hard and choose one. Could you give us some more backstory, maybe we could even help you make a choice.
BTW, personally I've a hard enough time finding one person to fall in love with, so I find it hard to believe a person could fall in love with two people at the same time, but hey I guess it is possible.
one is 16 about to be 17 and he's closer to my age (15 turning 16). i met about a year ago over summer and we fell in love. we share mulitple interests and we haven't had a single fight. he brings out my creative, thinking side.
the other is 21 and i met him about 2 years ago. we also share interests. he brings out my musical side, rebel side and i enjoy that.
i know that there is a huge age difference, but i don't see age as some people might. i love them both and it's hard. i didn't think i would love them both or could love them both, but i do.
i've fallen in love with two amazing guys. they don't know about each other and it's really hard on me. i've tried to only love one, but that hurts too much. i can't live without either one and i'm confused on what i should do. they both bring out the best in both of me but different sides. what do you guys think i should do?
Lucky you! Some people can't fall in love with even one!
one is 16 about to be 17 and he's closer to my age (15 turning 16). i met about a year ago over summer and we fell in love. we share mulitple interests and we haven't had a single fight. he brings out my creative, thinking side.
the other is 21 and i met him about 2 years ago. we also share interests. he brings out my musical side, rebel side and i enjoy that.
i know that there is a huge age difference, but i don't see age as some people might. i love them both and it's hard. i didn't think i would love them both or could love them both, but i do.
This first thing I'm going to tell you is that at your age, you shouldn't even think about being with someone who's 21. There's a lot more going on than you can or should be handling with someone that age going out with a 16 year old.
Have fun with people your age... and don't tie yourself down to either one. I would definitely let the older boy go out with women more his age, though. As hard as it may be for you, if you care about him, it's got to be the best thing for him.
You're too young to be worried about this stuff this much. Concentrate on the things that should be important to YOU now (school, finding out who YOU are, learning to be social with your friends, etc.).
With two of you and two of them, you have the potential for some adventures that the rest of us can only fantasize about - or download from special web sites.
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