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Wow....powerful response. I know all these things you say to be very real. My biggest regret is not listening to my gut in stinks, and ending the relationship sooner. i did leave out i have tried ending it several times, but he always reaches out again, and well i need to be stronger and stay away. Thank you for your insight. I feel very dumb for putting myself in this position.
Wow....powerful response. I know all these things you say to be very real. My biggest regret is not listening to my gut in stinks, and ending the relationship sooner. i did leave out i have tried ending it several times, but he always reaches out again, and well i need to be stronger and stay away. Thank you for your insight. I feel very dumb for putting myself in this position.
Don't beat yourself up, Confused. Just block the heck out of this guy. He can't reach out if he can't reach you. And I as I wrote previously, if he shows up at your house or place of employment, tell him to move on. If you socialize at the same places, have someone with you or simply avoid those places until things settle down.
Don't beat yourself up, Confused. Just block the heck out of this guy. He can't reach out if he can't reach you. And I as I wrote previously, if he shows up at your house or place of employment, tell him to move on. If you socialize at the same places, have someone with you or simply avoid those places until things settle down.
I would tell him good bye. Not just block. Blocking will just result in him showing up at her doorstep, demanding an explanation.
Call him on the phone and tell him it is over. If you think he will not accept it, make up a story. A story you cannot come back from and a story that makes him go away. But don't make him angry.
I ended it last week when I went threw his phone to see if he had contacted him again. Sure enough he did. Yes I kow i violated his privacy, but it was the only way to know. Funny thing is he had him listed under a different last name, same first name. i only knew for sure it was my ex's number by seeing it. Then my boyfriend had the nerve to say HE CALLED ME, but it was an out going symbol next to his name......guess he thinks im stupid!! Unfortunetly, I don't think I've heard the last of him.
But it's perfectly ok that YOU can go through HIS phone...
She had a good reason to. I would have done the same if I suspect he is a liar. For peace of mind.
Thank you I appreciate your response. i can undertand contacting my ex once, ansking questions, but to keep calling each other while sill dating me? WHY???? There is something suspicious going on here. Why n gods earth would they even want to talk to one another. My only thought is there feeding each other information if they have heard from me lately? So glad I ended it.
Thank you I appreciate your response. i can undertand contacting my ex once, ansking questions, but to keep calling each other while sill dating me? WHY???? There is something suspicious going on here. Why n gods earth would they even want to talk to one another. My only thought is there feeding each other information if they have heard from me lately? So glad I ended it.
If everyone is being honest then why not all socialize together... Or not at all. That's the only way I'd go for it.
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