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Old 02-17-2022, 08:11 AM
 
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That looks really good, Mandi, I am so happy for you!

 
Old 02-17-2022, 08:16 AM
 
Location: The ghetto
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Give it a few days. He's already "making fun" of her and she is "teasing" him, both of which are bad signs in my book. One of them is going to cross a line and say something hurtful, and then it will blow up. Question is, will it be before or after they sleep together? Stay tuned...




It's just being playful, Seija.




Mandi, how did it go from pizza to a nice restaurant? And did he pay?
 
Old 02-17-2022, 08:17 AM
 
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Give it a few days. He's already "making fun" of her and she is "teasing" him, both of which are bad signs in my book. One of them is going to cross a line and say something hurtful, and then it will blow up. Question is, will it be before or after they sleep together? Stay tuned...

That's not how a good lot of people operate. If some girl blew up from teasing it means I crossed the line or she is insecure. It would mean either I lack social skills or she is insecure. Something is wrong with one or both.


One does not tease a girl with weight problems about her weight, for example. One does not tease a woman about bald spots if she is balding. However if a very attractive girl is wearing a white dress, you go on and on about how you love black dresses. If a woman says I look broke pulling up in a BMW , then if she has thick lustrous hair, I mention she should try on some wigs.

In my book I called that having fun.
 
Old 02-17-2022, 08:27 AM
 
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Give it a few days. He's already "making fun" of her and she is "teasing" him, both osuchf which are bad signs in my book. One of them is going to cross a line and say something hurtful, and then it will blow up. Question is, will it be before or after they sleep together? Stay tuned...

Come on, Seija, don't be such a downer, they were just joking around a bit, that makes it fun, you should take everything a bit easier!
 
Old 02-17-2022, 08:34 AM
 
Location: SoCal again
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The date went really well. It was very comfortable. He put a lot if effort in. Took me to a nice restaurant. We were comfortable together. Joked around a bit. I got goodnight kisses. But I didn't feel he was using me or wanting to sleep with me. It was purely a nice night overall. I'm hoping to see him again.
I am glad it went well. Fingers crossed he stays polite.

Just being curious, you said he planned the date and put in a lot of effort. You went to a restaurant, what was the effort and the planning about??
 
Old 02-17-2022, 08:41 AM
 
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I am glad for Mandi that the date went well and I things continue to go well for her.

I am not sure, however, how going to a restaurant involves any effort or much planning, nor how things went from pizza to a nice restaurant. At least she got to meet him.
 
Old 02-17-2022, 08:47 AM
 
Location: SoCal again
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Give it a few days. He's already "making fun" of her and she is "teasing" him, both of which are bad signs in my book. One of them is going to cross a line and say something hurtful, and then it will blow up. Question is, will it be before or after they sleep together? Stay tuned...
... before or after he kills her and hacks her in pieces?

just going with the flow here.
 
Old 02-17-2022, 09:07 AM
 
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Sounds like it went well for OP. I hope she doesn't rush into wanting to marry.
 
Old 02-17-2022, 09:10 AM
 
Location: In the bee-loud glade
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... before or after he kills her and hacks her in pieces?

just going with the flow here.
Or worst of all, they have sex.
 
Old 02-17-2022, 09:36 AM
 
Location: Boca Raton, FL
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Smile Good news about the date!

Let Mandi enjoy this new relationship time!

Some people just get excited about someone new in their life or something new.

If I'm going out somewhere, I still get excited.
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