Husband is upset at me because I am being disobedient
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None of this matters because you already know that he's a piece of human garbage.
And yeah, I didn't want to say this earlier, but I pretty much knew in my head part of what you wrote as I've come across guys like that before (not dated them, but worked with them and saw how they found women to sucker into what you let yourself get sucked into). I can pretty much guarantee that you met this guy online. Guys like him target women on various sites, talk a good game, then take women for all that they are worth. Is your husband a U.S. citizen or legal resident?
The thing is, it's not too late to extricate yourself from this mess. Get. Him. Out. Of. Your. House.....like yesterday. Lawyer up.
If you're living in California, get divorced sooner rather than later.
Why are you choosing to tolerate what's going on? Your husband is no more a Christian than the man in the moon, so using religious belief as a cudgel with which to beat you should hold no water with you.
Get rid of him. If you continue to put up with his behavior, that is your doing. He is responsible for treating you like garbage. You are responsible for letting him.
Get rid of him. If you continue to put up with his behavior, that is your doing. He is responsible for treating you like garbage. You are responsible for letting him.
Get out now, he is a looser & not contributing anything to your household.
Why stay with such a cheater? You can do better.
He and I had a plan to try to pay off our car and buy a home . I suggested I get another job to help pay off some bills and save for a home . So what ended up happening is I ended up getting a job offer for a third job and I accepted it because the second job is stressful . Hubby wants to work my second job under the guise of me , I told him absolutely not , because it’s against company policy and I think it’s aria at the law . He is calling me hater and started yelling at me for not allowing him to work my second job as it’s a remote job . But I asked him , why don’t you apply with my company , as I would refer him for any job he chooses . His response is he doesn’t want to work for someone else ! Huh ? Does that make sense ? Plus he wants me to pay him for working my second job , so he has pretty
Much stopped working his rideshare job since I stated the second job , he really is upset about this . I feel like I’m taking care of this man . What a terrible situation I’m in right now
Why are you still with this guy? Why should we give you any more advice than we already have? Review your previous threads. There's nothing more to say.
Disobedient is his wording of choice
Technically he would be paid because I would be paying him what I make
But your second job pay is to go into paying bills and saving for a house, right? So, why would you be 'paying him' when the money is for yours and his mutual benefit?
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