Is it possible or a good idea for a guy with aspergers/autism to get married?? (wife, women)
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I do pick her up in magnolia and take her where she wants to go.
She doesn't want kids.
OK, well in that case, I can see why you wonder if she's just using you as a free Uber service. You've set yourself up for this, by agreeing to do that on a regular basis.
Do you know why you want to marry her (or get married in general)? Is it so you can spend more time together or that you don't like spending time apart now? Is it to share expenses? Is it to help each other out otherwise to do things for each other? Think about it and see what you can come up with...and whether you actually need to get married to accomplish those things.
It seems like you should talk to her and then to each set of parents to see if you can work things out. Is there any benefit to living together first, or moving where she can be closer to her family, if she needs their assistance?
It seems like you should talk to her and then to each set of parents to see if you can work things out. Is there any benefit to living together first, or moving where she can be closer to her family, if she needs their assistance?
Considering I knew nothing about the geography of Seattle, or perhaps its demographics, I’m guessing you and she could not afford a condo close to her parents in Magnolia if you married? Is Northgate that far away from Magnolia that they could not check in with her occasionally? It looks close enough…
If these relatively simple logistics are beyond the two of you, perhaps you should stick with the status quo.
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