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Old 04-07-2022, 05:45 AM
 
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All we can do is offer possibilities.

Exactly.



Such as the possibility that this man doesn't want to become Eskimo brothers with any of his coworkers.

 
Old 04-07-2022, 05:48 AM
 
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I’ll ask him the next time he does it. Thanks.
 
Old 04-07-2022, 06:31 AM
 
Location: South of Heaven
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I’ll ask him the next time he does it. Thanks.

Do you buy anything at this store or are you just using it as a convenient location to get hook ups and experiment with your ability to toy with young men?
 
Old 04-07-2022, 07:02 AM
 
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Do you buy anything at this store or are you just using it as a convenient location to get hook ups and experiment with your ability to toy with young men?
Of course, I buy things from the store and I don't go there to get hookups. That was a one-time thing with the guy. I'm not sure why you assume I go there to get hookups that's not the case at all. I'm not trying to hookup with the new guy I've said that a million times already.

My ability to toy with young men? I never said their ages and I'm not toying with anyone.
Also, It's not like I go there every day sometimes I don't go for weeks or months at a time.
 
Old 04-07-2022, 03:14 PM
 
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Neither am I.


Agreed. The OP comes to this board, supposedly looking for possible answers, and when they're offered, she becomes condescending.

No one can read his mind. All we can do is offer possibilities.


Or, the OP can simply ASK him why he's 'interrupting' her conversations with the co-worker, if he interrupts again.
I’m going to ask him why he did that when I see him again.
 
Old 04-07-2022, 04:06 PM
 
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I’m going to ask him why he did that when I see him again.
I wouldn't.

I'd ask him if he DOES it again. If you see him and he doesn't do it, it would be pointless to bring it up.

Bring it up to him IF he does it again, at the time he does it.
 
Old 04-07-2022, 04:16 PM
 
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I wouldn't.

I'd ask him if he DOES it again. If you see him and he doesn't do it, it would be pointless to bring it up.

Bring it up to him IF he does it again, at the time he does it.
It’s not pointless because I want to know why he did it.
 
Old 04-07-2022, 05:30 PM
 
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It’s not pointless because I want to know why he did it.
It is pointless. If too much time passes by, he can easily claim that he has no idea what you're talking about...or perhaps, it was such a non-thing for him that he truly doesn't remember.

That's why it's best to deal with it IF he does it again.
 
Old 04-07-2022, 05:33 PM
 
Location: Born + raised SF Bay; Tyler, TX now WNY
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In my younger days, I occasionally did this as an ego boost. I wasn’t looking to start anything or sleep with these women, just get a little reciprocal flirting and I was good. Naturally, this wasn’t what the ladies I was dating suspected and they didn’t buy that explanation, but for me at least it was true. I quit that long ago as it’s not a healthy part of maintaining a relationship, and I found the woman who’s so amazing that I don’t really want that kind of attention anymore.
 
Old 04-07-2022, 06:20 PM
 
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In my younger days, I occasionally did this as an ego boost. I wasn’t looking to start anything or sleep with these women, just get a little reciprocal flirting and I was good. Naturally, this wasn’t what the ladies I was dating suspected and they didn’t buy that explanation, but for me at least it was true. I quit that long ago as it’s not a healthy part of maintaining a relationship, and I found the woman who’s so amazing that I don’t really want that kind of attention anymore.
Did you ever sleep with any of them?
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