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Old 05-25-2008, 01:54 AM
 
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Originally Posted by Fat Freddy View Post
We didn't make much progress on your "Pathetic Man" thread, VC, but I think we are on the verge of a breakthrough here.

Close your eyes and imagine a guy across the room that looks just like you but cuter and sexier.

He blows you a kiss and you reach up for it.

Did you catch it or did you miss it?

How do you feel about that?

Any ickling I might of had to experiment with men is now gone. Thanks fat freddy.

 
Old 05-25-2008, 01:59 AM
 
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I do not need to do the math....and the woman posted again is a woman despite her size, it still carries the same repro organs. I am sorry but to put it bluntly? You can argue your point till you are blue in the face but the outvome will be the same, you either want the monkey or the rod. You cannot have your cake and stuff it too.
Isn't that what I just said? Granted not quite so bluntly but pretty much the same thing.
 
Old 05-25-2008, 02:01 AM
 
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Isn't that what I just said? Granted not quite so bluntly but pretty much the same thing.
lol! Yes you are correct! But I guess it is like a casino game for the op, he keeps spinning and spinning until he gets an answer he wants! I fear he will be at it for a long time
 
Old 05-25-2008, 02:15 AM
 
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lol! Yes you are correct! But I guess it is like a casino game for the op, he keeps spinning and spinning until he gets an answer he wants! I fear he will be at it for a long time
Isn't that the basic underlying buzz of gambling? You keep throwing in because you might hit the big time?
 
Old 05-25-2008, 02:44 AM
 
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What a person has done in their past generally does not affect me in the now with them, however, I do not want to become emotionally involved with some one who is not absolutely sure that they want to be emotionally involved with me a woman, THAT applies to ANYONE. I'd say seeing as I don't have the required parts to appeal to half of a bi mans attractions, a guy that is also attracted to men is sooner or later going to want to be with a man again.
Does anyone listen to LoveLine on the radio? They had a female caller who wanted to know if she should tell her boyfriend she was bisexual. They beat her up with the exact same response every time she asked: Why!??? Why on earth would it matter if you are in a monogamous relationship with the guy? The only reason you would *have* to tell him is if you planned to cheat on him with a woman, and were basically just giving him 'fair warning.' Otherwise there is NO reason it would matter if you were bisexual or not, no reason to even bring it up in an exclusive relationship.

The same goes for men who will make it very clear to a woman that they are bisexual. Wtf? It shouldn't matter, if you have selected one man or woman to be with, that you are also interested in the other sex... Unless you plan to mess around with the opposite sex! It's almost as rediculous as proclaiming that you are very heterosexual to your next boyfriend or girlfriend. What are you trying to make clear, exactly?

I think women are very astute to be bi-phobic. Likewise, I would be very hesitant to get in a very serious relationship with a woman who tried to make it very clear that she was bisexual. Hooookay... So what? You got a girlfriend on the side that I'm eventually going to find out about? Are you cheating with other men and women as well? Bisexuality is for singles and swingers. Once you enter a monogamous relationship with someone of either gender, bisexuality becomes irrelavant. At that point you are either gay or straight, for the purposes of that relationship.
 
Old 05-25-2008, 03:59 AM
 
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Well, than obviously you have never so much as taken a introductory class in psychology, because it is quite normal for otherwise straight people to have the occasional fantasy about a member of the same sex. Ever hear of a fellow named "Kinsey"?
Yes, and if you actually knew anything about Kinsey's research, then you would know that it is largely criticized for being extremely flawed, yet people who take a basic intro psych course enjoy bringing it up repeatedly . . . often after they've already misinterpreted what they were told about Kinsey to begin with.
 
Old 05-25-2008, 05:17 AM
 
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I guess there is a reason you have never been with a girl......holding out for the other team
 
Old 05-25-2008, 05:53 AM
 
Location: Bay Area
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Obviously this poster has quite a bit of anger inside for various reasons, much of it focused on women, since he is feeling pathetic for not being able to find the right one.
It must be the women's fault then for being too picky or having double standards. Thus this thread comes about.

Basically, if you have the right to rule out women on their preference of music (only hiphop or only emo) some of us have the right to rule out certain men because of their bisexual tendencies. And hello, giving a guy a peck on the cheek is 1 thing,who cares, holding it for him while he relieves himself is another.
 
Old 05-25-2008, 06:33 AM
 
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thank you Fania00,
and my prediction is that victorianpunk is actually bisexual and therefore wants to experiment. he came up with this thread to find out why once he does experiment will find trouble having some woman accept him again.
sadly, he will become a chubby himself and then will have to find a chubby chaser of either sex to be with him....
 
Old 05-25-2008, 07:10 AM
 
Location: NoVa
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Hmm... I think there is a stigma, with the man on man action... with aids and hiv out there, one can never be to careful... and that is what one must be in this life.. be careful.

Not everyone is curious, though... I have no thoughts about being with another woman.....at all. Not even on accident... LOL
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