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And nice guys aren’t as nice as they proclaim to be anyway, look at the examples we have here, some very judge-y and critical, some sense of superiority, these things I don’t find attractive. I don’t even know what they look like, so how can it be their outside?
Probably plenty of genuinely nice guys out there that aren’t trying to act tough. Throwing a middle finger at people, calling them names, slamming doors and peeling off on a motorcycle just seems like somebody that’s a little immature. I’ve definitely been immature in my life, acted reckless and hurt women emotionally but it’s not a place I wanted to stay at…I wanted growth as a person….especially approaching middle age.
Just today I talked to a woman who was recently beat very bad by her “bad boy” husband…thrown through glass, punched, finger smashed in a door. He’s on drugs also and spent half his life in prison yet she took him back over and over and over for years when he would promise to change. She’s a nurse so pretty good job, but as others have mentioned she said she thought she could change him if she loved enough.
Probably plenty of genuinely nice guys out there that aren’t trying to act tough. Throwing a middle finger at people, calling them names, slamming doors and peeling off on a motorcycle just seems like somebody that’s a little immature. I’ve definitely been immature in my life, acted reckless and hurt women emotionally but it’s not a place I wanted to stay at…I wanted growth as a person….especially approaching middle age.
Yeah, but - at least here - we are not suppose to 'judge'. Tsk tsk tsk!
The *real* world is certainly different from this place - a guy like that in my world would be regarded as a 'bad news loser' any SMART and GROWN-UP woman would WISELY avoid whereas here he would be coddled and branded as someone who is just a little bit 'misunderstood' - *awww* - and just needs to be given a 'chance' *sniffle* since he, 'deep down', really *is* a sweet pussycat *wipes away a tear*.
What crap. Seriously.
You betcha I am 'judge-y'. People like the 'sweet pussycat' negatively judge and have contempt for me and those like me. I return the favor with no regrets.
Troll. Petulant whiny “poor me” bs gets you nowhere. Acting superior and judging because you’ve been judged by others is like slapping a kid and yelling “quit hitting”.
And of course, right on cue, the points made in the post are not addressed - rather, the poster is attacked. So the 'message' is irrelevant, but the poster *is* relevant. Google Halo Effect and Devil Effect for details.
Check the TOS, ladies, there is a bit of text there when it comes to 'personal attacks' and calling posters 'trolls'.
Oh, and also? Trashing 'bad boys' in general is not a 'personal attack' on anyone in particular, so I saved you some trouble.
And of course, right on cue, the points made in the post are not addressed - rather, the poster is attacked. So the 'message' is irrelevant, but the poster *is* relevant. Google Halo Effect and Devil Effect for details.
Check the TOS, ladies, there is a bit of text there when it comes to 'personal attacks' and calling posters 'trolls'.
Oh, and also? Trashing 'bad boys' in general is not a 'personal attack' on anyone in particular, so I saved you some trouble.
Sort of annoying when people start throwing around the “troll” word because it usually means people are upset enough that a thread is close to being closed by moderators. It’s sorta like hundreds of years ago yelling out “witch!!!” if a woman said something you didn’t like. You would think a topic as innocent as this could be discussed by adults.
Sort of annoying when people start throwing around the “troll” word because it usually means people are upset enough that a thread is close to being closed by moderators. It’s sorta like hundreds of years ago yelling out “witch!!!” if a woman said something you didn’t like. You would think a topic as innocent as this could be discussed by adults.
I agree and I think some very valid and good points have been brought up and have yet to be addressed/discussed.
What's funny, is when a younger person wants a "bad boy/girl."
Then, when they have a pistol shoved in their nostril, they come to the realization, that "maybe this wasn't such a good idea..."
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