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I was visiting my home country. I met a girl. She works at a bar. I go up to her while she's on a break and literally after five minutes of convo she asks me for my Facebook. She adds me.
The next day, as soon as I accepted her friend request she texts me about meeting up after work that same day. I went to see her. She proposed to go to another bar and have some drinks. We went and stayed there for for three hours. I walked her home. She felt a bit distanced so I gave her a hug and took an Uber home.
The following day in the evening she texted me "coffee tomorrow?" and I agreed. We met up and had some coffee, talked and laughed. She remembered small details of stuff I'd said. It had been a while since any woman had really listened to me.
Nothing serious happened though although there was a moment or so I think but because I had been hurt in my previous relationship I decided not to do anything yet. I gave her a hug but the hug was a bit longer and more passionate. Still just a hug though. We went our separate ways.
Two days later, I initiate the meeting. Text her to go for drinks. She accepts. However, shortly before our date, she texts me that her good friend was going to join us later in the evening. I was let down a bit because I didn't understand why she couldn't have just made time for me.
Our date went fine, her friend came and she was nice and all, so no problem there. They ended up taking a cab somewhere to town for some food and drinks, I had to go home packing because I was traveling back home.
Late that night, I get a "good night" gif from her. I found it cute since she went partying with her friend without me but still managed to send me a good night text when she came home.
We texted all day the following day. She sent me a "have a safe trip" pic with smaller caption saying "remember you have someone to come back to". She also confided in me an incident she had at work to which I replied "sorry I couldn't be there that night" and she replied "It's a shame you aren't here overall" with a sad smiley at the end of the sentence.
When I arrived home safely the next day I texted her. She asked me for a photo of my dog, I sent her, she "liked" the photo with a heart emoji and... hasn't replied or texted since. It's been three days.
Is she interested? Should I text her? Has she lost interest?
I was visiting my home country. I met a girl. She works at a bar. I go up to her while she's on a break and literally after five minutes of convo she asks me for my Facebook. She adds me.
The next day, as soon as I accepted her friend request she texts me about meeting up after work that same day. I went to see her. She proposed to go to another bar and have some drinks. We went and stayed there for for three hours. I walked her home. She felt a bit distanced so I gave her a hug and took an Uber home.
The following day in the evening she texted me "coffee tomorrow?" and I agreed. We met up and had some coffee, talked and laughed. She remembered small details of stuff I'd said. It had been a while since any woman had really listened to me.
Nothing serious happened though although there was a moment or so I think but because I had been hurt in my previous relationship I decided not to do anything yet. I gave her a hug but the hug was a bit longer and more passionate. Still just a hug though. We went our separate ways.
Two days later, I initiate the meeting. Text her to go for drinks. She accepts. However, shortly before our date, she texts me that her good friend was going to join us later in the evening. I was let down a bit because I didn't understand why she couldn't have just made time for me.
Our date went fine, her friend came and she was nice and all, so no problem there. They ended up taking a cab somewhere to town for some food and drinks, I had to go home packing because I was traveling back home.
Late that night, I get a "good night" gif from her. I found it cute since she went partying with her friend without me but still managed to send me a good night text when she came home.
We texted all day the following day. She sent me a "have a safe trip" pic with smaller caption saying "remember you have someone to come back to". She also confided in me an incident she had at work to which I replied "sorry I couldn't be there that night" and she replied "It's a shame you aren't here overall" with a sad smiley at the end of the sentence.
When I arrived home safely the next day I texted her. She asked me for a photo of my dog, I sent her, she "liked" the photo with a heart emoji and... hasn't replied or texted since. It's been three days.
Is she interested? Should I text her? Has she lost interest?
You could send something easy... like "hey, how are things going?" and leave it at that. If she replies I would wait a while and reply back (according to how she replies to you.) She may be waiting to hear from you. Put the ball in her court. If she doesn't reply within a reasonable amount of time, move on and forget her. She is already causing anxiety obviously. Not a good sign.
I'm not sure how far you are from your home country but I don't get the impression she's looking to invest in a long distance connection with someone she knew for less than a week.
I'm not sure how far you are from your home country but I don't get the impression she's looking to invest in a long distance connection with someone she knew for less than a week.
How do you get that impression?
I forgot to add that she texted me about a place she was at recently and said "we should go there when you come back".
For gawds sake....quit keeping score of the texts. Just send her another text. If you are doing something interesting or going somewhere you can send her a photo of, all the better.
But be realistic....do you want a long distance relationship? Can anything come of it? Or, are you just wanting to have sex with her next time you are in her country?
Just ask her "are you interested". In this case you going to have to be serious
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