How can I tell if my parents are having consensual sex? (love, couple)
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My room is right under theirs. It was in the early morning, I hear my stepdad walk in and about 10 seconds later they started doing it. I don't know much about sex or relationships so I figured I ask. My only concern is knowing that they both want to do it. Aren't you suppose to ease into it with foreplay or something?. From what I know, their relationship is good and he doesn't seem like a bad guy. But who knows how people are behind closed doors.
I know it's not my business. My only worry if you will, is that it's a healthy and consensual thing and no one is pressured or coerced into doing something they don't want to do
I know it's not my business. My only worry if you will, is that it's a healthy and consensual thing and no one is pressured or coerced into doing something they don't want to do
If this is real, it's absolutely none of your concern.
Your parents are adults they can take care of themselves if there's a problem.
You are intruding into their privacy.
Back off, find healthy pursuits to occupy your thoughts.
My room is right under theirs. It was in the early morning, I hear my stepdad walk in and about 10 seconds later they started doing it. I don't know much about sex or relationships so I figured I ask. My only concern is knowing that they both want to do it. Aren't you suppose to ease into it with foreplay or something?. From what I know, their relationship is good and he doesn't seem like a bad guy. But who knows how people are behind closed doors.
While I understand in general about having concerns about sexual assault, unless there is some evidence, its odd to think that there might be sexual assault without any evidence. How old are you?
What a couple chooses to do in a bedroom is entirely up to them. Unless you see evidence of abuse, I would keep you nose out of their private business. I would also tell both of these adults in your life that you are available to discuss adult topics if they need.
While I understand in general about having concerns about sexual assault, unless there is some evidence, its odd to think that there might be sexual assault without any evidence. How old are you?
What a couple chooses to do in a bedroom is entirely up to them. Unless you see evidence of abuse, I would keep you nose out of their private business. I would also tell both of these adults in your life that you are available to discuss adult topics if they need.
I'm am adult and by society's standard I should have my own place.
That's derailing the topic though. With your last sentence, are you saying that if there's an issue they would tell me?
My room is right under theirs. It was in the early morning, I hear my stepdad walk in and about 10 seconds later they started doing it. I don't know much about sex or relationships so I figured I ask. My only concern is knowing that they both want to do it. Aren't you suppose to ease into it with foreplay or something?. From what I know, their relationship is good and he doesn't seem like a bad guy. But who knows how people are behind closed doors.
O.P., if I might write this rather frankly and with as little judgement as possible given that you likely have very little first-hand experience with romantic relationships and sex...
It's highly probable that you overheard your folks having consensual relations. Foreplay isn't always a prerequisite when people are in the mood to have intercourse with one another. Sometimes, people are just ready to go....or not.
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