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Old 11-15-2022, 04:47 AM
 
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OP I'm interested to know if the no sex means you don't want sex at all or you want to wait until you get to know each other better and see if there is a connection? How long have you felt this way?

Personally I want the sex however it has to be with someone that I care about and have dated exclusively when the time is right.
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Old 11-15-2022, 05:10 AM
 
Location: Coastal Georgia
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Maybe there are gay men who would like female friends?
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Old 11-15-2022, 08:13 AM
 
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OP I'm interested to know if the no sex means you don't want sex at all or you want to wait until you get to know each other better and see if there is a connection? How long have you felt this way?

Personally I want the sex however it has to be with someone that I care about and have dated exclusively when the time is right.
No sex at all
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Old 11-15-2022, 08:15 AM
 
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Maybe there are gay men who would like female friends?
Um,gay men want to cuddle with other men,not with women. WTF?
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Old 11-15-2022, 08:17 AM
 
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And you just go tell the whole world and total strangers that over the internet , very dignified.
At any rate, it's stuff you talk to the guy that interests you about very early in , he's the only one that matters in the equation.
Or if your on a date site l'd actually just briefly mention what your looking for in that department - save a whole lot of messing about later.
Yeah it's gonna rule out most but that won't be all.
On the site l'm on a lot of people just talk about what they're looking for on the page. Just some dinners and company is a really common one l've seen a lot of.
It is not dignified to say you do not want sex? WTH
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Old 11-15-2022, 08:49 AM
 
Location: Midwest
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This^^^. I would be out of my mind if my partner rejects sex with me and then turns around and watches some porn while I sleep. And I am not allowed to sleep with anyone else despite my partner not sleeping with me.

I think finding that guy will be nearly impossible for OP.
Maybe the robot factory.
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Old 11-15-2022, 11:00 AM
 
Location: Coastal Georgia
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Um,gay men want to cuddle with other men,not with women. WTF?
Who said anything about cuddling? I’m talking going out for dinner or the movies.
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Old 11-15-2022, 11:04 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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Who said anything about cuddling? I’m talking going out for dinner or the movies.
That's the OP's perfect scenario--she wants a romantic relationship, but not a sexual one. It's a big ask, but hanging out with a friend isn't the same.
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Old 11-15-2022, 11:10 AM
 
Location: Knoxville, TN
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This is not an insult in any way shape or form. I mean this seriously, but it is of no practical use to the OP.

The OP would be perfect for a loving man who wants a serious romantic relationship but suffers from complete erectile disfunction to the point sex is impossible.

Perfect on paper but useless in practice, since it would be near impossible to find such men at all, let alone in such a small candidate pool to find one that also has a lot in common with the OP, is a good fit for a life partner, and has a spark with the OP.

Nice fantasy that would never happen.

But it would be just what the OP ordered.
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Old 11-15-2022, 11:52 AM
 
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OP I'm interested to know if the no sex means you don't want sex at all or you want to wait until you get to know each other better and see if there is a connection? How long have you felt this way?

Personally I want the sex however it has to be with someone that I care about and have dated exclusively when the time is right.
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No sex at all
OP is this something you've come to realize recently, or has it been the case for quite a while or actually your entire life?
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