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Why don't you want sex? I find that strange. I don't think you're going to find a boyfriend if you're not willing to give it up at some point..
It's actually not strange at all. There are lots of men out there that have no desire for sex. I was married to one, who was otherwise loving and affectionate, but that was as far as he could go. He was asexual. My best friend's husband had prostate cancer and couldn't have sex after treatment.
There must be loads of men who, for whatever reason, can't or don't want sex. It's not at all unusual.
It's actually not strange at all. There are lots of men out there that have no desire for sex. I was married to one, who was otherwise loving and affectionate, but that was as far as he could go. He was asexual. My best friend's husband had prostate cancer and couldn't have sex after treatment.
There must be loads of men who, for whatever reason, can't or don't want sex. It's not at all unusual.
I agree I don't think it's all that strange or uncommon, I think it's just not really talked about. A friend of mine is married and hates sex, always has. She said for her it's uncomfortable and hurts, she even saw a doctor about it who said it was because she had too many nerve endings down there, so she had surgery to fix that and still does not enjoy sex. She does have sex with her husband though but I guess it's purely for his enjoyment not hers, which is sad.
Humans are wired to desire sex, can we agree on that? While nothing is "wrong" there is something certainly abnormal about having zero desire for sex as long as there are no physical issues (hormonal, etc.) that are causing it. Let's stop with the PC police posts for a day, can we?
"Most" humans are wired to desire sex, but not all...
I agree I don't think it's all that strange or uncommon, I think it's just not really talked about. A friend of mine is married and hates sex, always has. She said for her it's uncomfortable and hurts, she even saw a doctor about it who said it was because she had too many nerve endings down there, so she had surgery to fix that and still does not enjoy sex. She does have sex with her husband though but I guess it's purely for his enjoyment not hers, which is sad.
Asexuality is much more common in women than men. 86% female - 14% male. 1% of the total population. Than means 3 million asexuals in the US. 420,000 male.
It's actually not strange at all. There are lots of men out there that have no desire for sex. I was married to one, who was otherwise loving and affectionate, but that was as far as he could go. He was asexual. My best friend's husband had prostate cancer and couldn't have sex after treatment.
There must be loads of men who, for whatever reason, can't or don't want sex. It's not at all unusual.
Wow, I had no idea.. I could understand if you have had some physical illness, but I just don't get it otherwise. I thought most men thought about sex a thousand times a day until they're like 70...lol
Everytime I meet a man,when i tell them I am not into sex,they either tell me about how they are different,and to give them a try,or they ghost.
Are there men out there open to a relationship with no sex?
Where can I find such men?
I would put it into my profile. Otherwise you are wasting other people's time.
Are you okay with them having sex with someone else?
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