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It started about one year ago when we were at a company delegation during a party. Both of us are smokers then we had a lot of opportunities to talk together. When we went out last time at the end of the party, she asked me to bring her to the hotel room. When we went there, I don't exactly know how it happened, because I was drunk but become from the goodbye kiss, we started kissing and then had sex.
I felt awkard after this, but she explained me that was just sex, and nothing bad. We were pretending that nothing had happened. After few weeks, she invited me to her home. I was extremely excited about this, I visited her, and we had a lot of sex. We have had very much of metings like this.
The point here is our physical relationship with a her made me develop incredibly serious feelings to her. I have 23 years and she 31. Should I tell her about what I feel?
If you have feelings for her, perhaps there are ways you can show her? Send her flowers, or ask her on a date. Maybe you don't have to say the words right off the bat.
Yes, maybe you have a right, I should do this slowly and become acting like a boyfriend. It is very hard for me because I'm extremely close with her physically, but mentally I still feel shy.
Yes, maybe you have a right, I should do this slowly and become acting like a boyfriend. It is very hard for me because I'm extremely close with her physically, but mentally I still feel shy.
Yes, maybe you have a right, I should do this slowly and become acting like a boyfriend. It is very hard for me because I'm extremely close with her physically, but mentally I still feel shy.
It’s been a year, as they say, it is what it is.
It started about one year ago when we were at a company delegation during a party. Both of us are smokers then we had a lot of opportunities to talk together. When we went out last time at the end of the party, she asked me to bring her to the hotel room. When we went there, I don't exactly know how it happened, because I was drunk but become from the goodbye kiss, we started kissing and then had sex.
I felt awkard after this, but she explained me that was just sex, and nothing bad. We were pretending that nothing had happened. After few weeks, she invited me to her home. I was extremely excited about this, I visited her, and we had a lot of sex. We have had very much of metings like this.
The point here is our physical relationship with a her made me develop incredibly serious feelings to her. I have 23 years and she 31. Should I tell her about what I feel?
From what you wrote, I get the feeling that she's not that into you, but she's ok with just sex. She's a little older, and you're sort of shy and have all these feelings for her. I would find out where you stand before hooking up again. She may do this sort of thing "just sex" quite often and she may not be someone that you would want to become emotionally involved with.
Have the two of you actually talked about what you want from this relationship?
No, we haven't talked about our relationship yet, but I invited her to the restaurant last weekend, and we spent a very nice time.
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Originally Posted by Bootsamillion
From what you wrote, I get the feeling that she's not that into you, but she's ok with just sex. She's a little older, and you're sort of shy and have all these feelings for her. I would find out where you stand before hooking up again. She may do this sort of thing "just sex" quite often and she may not be someone that you would want to become emotionally involved with.
I don't think so because she told she sleep just with me.
Last edited by hamburgerabi; 03-20-2023 at 06:55 PM..
No, we haven't talked about our relationship yet, but I invited her to the restaurant last weekend, and we spent a very nice time.
You need to. You have no idea if she's even open to more.
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