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Old 03-31-2023, 09:12 PM
 
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So I used to talk to this guy and he was super into me. I cut him off for other reasons but he still is very active on my social media page.

Make a long story short I posted a picture of my camera flipped facing me from the waist down only showing my legs and shoes to my story which he viewed. The next day comes and he posts the same picture on his story of his camera flipped around only showing his pants and shoes??? Keep in mind this man never posts photos everrrr.

About two weeks ago I posted me and a dude on a date which he viewed.

Am I reading to much into this ??? Women who know social media and men’s antics, am I doing a lot ???

 
Old 03-31-2023, 10:43 PM
 
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You mentioned he "was super into you", but did you and he ever date?
Sounds like he's still into you. Even though you've cut him loose he's still watching your social media posts, maybe wondering if you're with another guy. I had a FWB a few years back who still "likes" my posts, even though I'm seeing someone now (and my ex-FWB is also "spoken for" now). Anyway, are you and this guy still on speaking terms although you're not with him?
 
Old 03-31-2023, 11:32 PM
 
Location: Mr. Roger's Neighborhood
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Is this the same guy from the thread that you started several months ago?
 
Old 04-01-2023, 08:24 AM
 
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Yes you are reading too much into it.
 
Old 04-01-2023, 08:30 AM
 
Location: Tri STATE!!!
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Originally Posted by Kimbella8899 View Post
So I used to talk to this guy and he was super into me. I cut him off for other reasons but he still is very active on my social media page.

Make a long story short I posted a picture of my camera flipped facing me from the waist down only showing my legs and shoes to my story which he viewed. The next day comes and he posts the same picture on his story of his camera flipped around only showing his pants and shoes??? Keep in mind this man never posts photos everrrr.

About two weeks ago I posted me and a dude on a date which he viewed.

Am I reading to much into this ??? Women who know social media and men’s antics, am I doing a lot ???
How old are you????
 
Old 04-01-2023, 08:45 AM
 
Location: Tri STATE!!!
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Is this what people do on social media? If so I'm glad I don't have any. Maybe I'm just old.
 
Old 04-01-2023, 09:27 AM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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Yes you are reading too much into it.
I truly think she loves the attention too. If she cut him off, that would include blocking him on social media to a logical person who doesn’t want a damn thing to do with someone.
 
Old 04-01-2023, 10:09 AM
 
Location: Mr. Roger's Neighborhood
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I truly think she loves the attention too. If she cut him off, that would include blocking him on social media to a logical person who doesn’t want a damn thing to do with someone.
That was my thought, too, and lines up with the advice that most of us here gave her on her last thread. Why let someone who was "cut off" still have access to seeing what is posted on her social media unless she likes having him pay attention to her even if only in an indirect manner?

Despite the O.P.'s lack of an answer to my previous post, there's little doubt in my mind that the guy in question is the same one from her last thread.
 
Old 04-01-2023, 10:35 AM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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Originally Posted by Kimbella8899 View Post
So I used to talk to this guy and he was super into me. I cut him off for other reasons but he still is very active on my social media page.

Make a long story short I posted a picture of my camera flipped facing me from the waist down only showing my legs and shoes to my story which he viewed. The next day comes and he posts the same picture on his story of his camera flipped around only showing his pants and shoes??? Keep in mind this man never posts photos everrrr.

About two weeks ago I posted me and a dude on a date which he viewed.

Am I reading to much into this ??? Women who know social media and men’s antics, am I doing a lot ???
Maybe he was just mocking you.
Childish games.
 
Old 04-01-2023, 10:40 AM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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If he wanted you, he would be talking to you, making plans, and spending time with you. Social media likes and story views mean NOTHING. Go outside.
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