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Hi all, I have had a busy Easter weekend with family and friends so haven't had a chance to come back to my post until now. I was surprised to find it had been closed before I had the chance to respond to people. There were some very harsh responses but I understand where they were coming from.
Allot has happened with this guy since my last post. I haven't seen him but for the first time we had an in depth long talk on the phone. A real heart to heart. He is leaving his wife (but not for me because I don't want to be involved with him in that way anymore) because he not happy there anymore. He's not in love with his wife anymore and she understands that too.
He really opened up to me. The other woman I mentioned in my previous post is an ex of his from 30 years ago. They have allot of history. They got engaged, got pregnant but lost their child. This caused them to break up and she ended up marrying someone else really quickly and having more kids. But then she ended up divorced. They talk every couple of years and have always had a connection. His head is a mess. He said it was never anything to do with me and he loves and thinks the world of me.
We have established a friendship and I'm happy with that.
Like many others here have said, I also began to think he was a serial cheater, but that turned out not to be the case. He had allot going on.
Probably not a good idea to remain in contact with this guy, but looks like you at least got some closure even though not sure how honest this man was being.
Hi all, I have had a busy Easter weekend with family and friends so haven't had a chance to come back to my post until now. I was surprised to find it had been closed before I had the chance to respond to people. There were some very harsh responses but I understand where they were coming from.
Allot has happened with this guy since my last post. I haven't seen him but for the first time we had an in depth long talk on the phone. A real heart to heart. He is leaving his wife (but not for me because I don't want to be involved with him in that way anymore) because he not happy there anymore. He's not in love with his wife anymore and she understands that too.
He really opened up to me. The other woman I mentioned in my previous post is an ex of his from 30 years ago. They have allot of history. They got engaged, got pregnant but lost their child. This caused them to break up and she ended up marrying someone else really quickly and having more kids. But then she ended up divorced. They talk every couple of years and have always had a connection. His head is a mess. He said it was never anything to do with me and he loves and thinks the world of me.
We have established a friendship and I'm happy with that.
Like many others here have said, I also began to think he was a serial cheater, but that turned out not to be the case. He had allot going on.
There is one very dangerous behavior pattern that you both posses, that will inevitably come back and haunt you one day. The inability to let go and move on. Neither of you know how to cut prior emotional connections. It's important to you to always have them at arm's length for some reason. This is not healthy as it is a symptom of codependency. If you move on with them as your "friend", you don't seem so alone and you have them at arm's length for some reason.
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