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Old 06-02-2008, 12:11 PM
 
Location: South Bay Native
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All the posts above me sound really nice, but here's the reality list:

leaves the room I'm in when he has to fart
puts down the toilet seat
appreciates the fact that I will never ask him, "does this XXX make me look fat?"
knows better than to tell me "that XXX makes you look fat" (see the line above)
uses utensils to eat
can occasionally show affection and feign interest in my stories
doesn't make me sleep on the wet spot

(hint - the reason so many listed 'honesty' is because that is a characteristic rarely experienced by women as expressed by the men in their lives - if you are truly capable of it, then you will most DEFINITELY be attractive to women - a true "catch")

The big "bulge", as stated earlier, is just gravy
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Old 06-02-2008, 12:21 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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uses utensils to eat
Oh, c'mon... eating by hands is sensual. I don't have high expectations of guys who pick on bones with utensils... They're usually squeamish... and on and on...not fun...

Certain things, like fish, chicken, and women are best handled by hands.

Oops, I don't mean stuffing your face with a hamburger, of course...
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Old 06-02-2008, 12:59 PM
 
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ya and why is a guy in tight jeans not hot? I think it's so cute.

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The big "bulge", as stated earlier, is just gravy
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Old 06-02-2008, 01:10 PM
 
Location: South Bay Native
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Oh, c'mon... eating by hands is sensual. I don't have high expectations of guys who pick on bones with utensils... They're usually squeamish... and on and on...not fun...

Certain things, like fish, chicken, and women are best handled by hands.

Oops, I don't mean stuffing your face with a hamburger, of course...
You're on fiyah today girl - I'll correct my point and say "knows how to use utensils to eat, and also knows when using hands is appropriate" - how's that? Remember, I was trying to keep the list realistic....
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Old 06-02-2008, 01:11 PM
 
Location: South Bay Native
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ya and why is a guy in tight jeans not hot? I think it's so cute.
I guess it depends on the guy in the tight jeans.
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Old 06-02-2008, 01:22 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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You're on fiyah today girl - I'll correct my point and say "knows how to use utensils to eat, and also knows when using hands is appropriate" - how's that? Remember, I was trying to keep the list realistic....
I KNEW you'd agree.
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Old 06-02-2008, 01:35 PM
 
Location: West Texas
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Oh, c'mon... eating by hands is sensual. I don't have high expectations of guys who pick on bones with utensils...
Of course, that's provided the food is not being eaten off of you (in a sensual way... not in a "oops...dropped some gravy... I'll get that" kind of way)
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Old 06-02-2008, 02:27 PM
 
Location: NJ/SC
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Attractive qualities to me are:
Intelligence
Sense of Humor
Good hygiene
Taller than me preferred
Loyal
Loves animals
Treats his mother well
Passionate about things he believes in
Open to trying new things - Likes to travel

Extras are:
Into the same music I am
Doesn't wear sneakers everywhere
Helps around the house
Can fix things
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Old 06-02-2008, 02:42 PM
 
Location: Visitation between Wal-Mart & Home Depot
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Question to all female members: What turns you on or off about a guy? What is the most key factor in a love relationship and what keeps it going?
I know that my extremely high kill-to-respawn ratio used to make all the girlies swoon. Especially those HALO chicks. They were always hot for me.
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Old 06-02-2008, 04:24 PM
 
Location: Whoville....
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Question to all female members: What turns you on or off about a guy? What is the most key factor in a love relationship and what keeps it going?
Deep question.

Initially, whether or not he looks at me when he talks to me. Self confidence. Not being arrogant. Intelligence. Success (sorry but we do think in terms of providing for our offspring even when not consciously doing so).

Turn offs are conceit, arrogance and controlling behavior. (thinking back a long time here since I haven't been in the market for 30 years, lol)
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