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I was married for 11 years (divorce will be final in a week! hooray!), and he was the only man I have had sex with. And I gotta say, it wasn't great with him. Ever. What does this mean? Is it just a chemistry thing (which we were lacking)? Is there hope for me to have better sex with someone else in the future???
yes, you may find someone whom you have an amazing connection with--and that will make sex so much better.
but i would not just run out and start sleeping with people just to see if its good or not. just give yourself some time, meet some people and take it slow.
just my opinion
My stbe husband and I always has great sex, but that was it. You can have great sexual energy with someone, but don't mistake it for a foundation to build a good relationship.
I find this to be your classic "which came first the chicken or the egg?" dilemma. As I see it, the personal connection needs to be there first. My guess is that you and your ex really didn't have that from the start either. Others may feel the great sex comes first.
Whatever your take, I agree behaving like a prisoner just let out of prison is not the way to solve the dilemma.
Last edited by Stace08; 06-01-2008 at 07:36 PM..
Reason: brain faster than hands
Or, maybe you'll find that you're the lousy one in bed. Oh my!
I do wonder about that... I don't have any way of knowing. I DO know, however, that he was a lousy kisser. I had to wipe my mouth after he attacked me all drooly-like.
I've only had safe sex in my life and most of the time it wasn't that good or I felt weird afterwards...
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I was married for 11 years (divorce will be final in a week! hooray!), and he was the only man I have had sex with. And I gotta say, it wasn't great with him. Ever. What does this mean? Is it just a chemistry thing (which we were lacking)? Is there hope for me to have better sex with someone else in the future???
I do wonder about that... I don't have any way of knowing. I DO know, however, that he was a lousy kisser. I had to wipe my mouth after he attacked me all drooly-like.
Well, now that you're "available", find a nice guy and let the sparks fly.
Is it asking too much to follow the administration's request, to limit these topics to PG13
????????
It's not that hard. just keep in mind that there are people of all backgrounds reading CD
Don't you think that America is entitled to have at least one or two forums that
we don't have to talk about sex?
I mean the second thread on the page is asking that we don't do this
geesh
Well, now that you're "available", find a nice guy and let the sparks fly.
I tell you what, I really am looking forward to getting out there (not in the sex sense, more in the dating sense). Marriage that long and lame makes you miss those "sparks." I miss that rush of first love (or lust?)!!!
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