I love my gf but she might leave me (dating, movies, kiss)
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We've been together (living seperately) for 4 months now but I think she'll leave me once she discovers the truth about my lack of sexual appetite. My last relationship ended because there wasn't too much sex. Sure, I can still do it a couple times just to please her but that's really not something that I go crazy about. Honestly I'm not a very sexual man; never was. Not even in my teens. I know this the norm. I tried to watch porn and all I see Is people making sounds and random movements. My fantasies are never sexual. It's rather about my gf and flying in the sky or sharing a romantic kiss at a restaurant. We haven't had sex yet. I believe I've always been asexual. I can love without having sex.
I really wish we would keep things at romance. I love going hiking with her, lay down on the grass and talk about science fiction, history or other topics, share a passionate kiss, talk over the phone, go to the movies, etc. I'm just not into the undressing and sex party too much. I guess I'm going to lose her too right?
We've been together (living seperately) for 4 months now but I think she'll leave me once she discovers the truth about my lack of sexual appetite. My last relationship ended because there wasn't too much sex. Sure, I can still do it a couple times just to please her but that's really not something that I go crazy about. Honestly I'm not a very sexual man; never was. Not even in my teens. I know this the norm. I tried to watch porn and all I see Is people making sounds and random movements. My fantasies are never sexual. It's rather about my gf and flying in the sky or sharing a romantic kiss at a restaurant. We haven't had sex yet. I believe I've always been asexual. I can love without having sex.
I really wish we would keep things at romance. I love going hiking with her, lay down on the grass and talk about science fiction, history or other topics, share a passionate kiss, talk over the phone, go to the movies, etc. I'm just not into the undressing and sex party too much. I guess I'm going to lose her too right?
Have you discussed this yet? Maybe she’s asexual too?
If she leaves you, it'll be due to your lack of communication and honesty, not because of your libido. Right now you're stringing her along and withholding information from her.
Red, you need to start off telling people in the forefront that you're asexual so that you aren't dragging others around the mud. It's a disgrace, wasting everyone's time.
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