Lesbian Couple friendship (wife, girlfriend, single, sex)

[Confused and hurt]

So what are the boundaries in same sex relationships when it comes to getting to know “new” friends that you meet after starting a relationship. For instance, when your single and meet someone new- your free to text and talk to as much as you want but when your in a committed relationship, how much time spent texting the new friend is too much?

The friend that’s texting is a feeme friend in a couple friendship. She is texting the stud friend daily thurout the day. Nothing in particular but it did happen when the wife of the stud she was texting was at work. She always tells the stud friend how everything she’s doing thurout the day reminds her of her- even when he washes her hands- bc the studs hands are super soft. She also texts the girlfriend of the studs she texting but the texts don’t seem as exciting as the ones she texts the stud.

So- am I wrong for feeling some type of way about them texting all day? At this point we are all still friends but I’m not sure if I want to stay friends with this couple. The 2 studs have grown closer and I feel better with THEM forming that relationship. But am I wrong for being upset with the femme friend?

[Collegegirls]

This may or may not matter now that it is a month later, but...

It sounds like something is going on, maybe you should talk to whoever the issue is with. Tell them what you think about the situation as a friend. If you feel what they are doing is wrong, explain to that person why you feel that way. If this person is a true friend, what you have to say, should have some worth.

I hope this helps if the even hasn't passed already