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I had two loves, my first was truly my real love. I was 21 years old and dated plenty, but he rocked my world. The funny thing was that I was not attracted to him at all. We worked together so closely that I saw the good in him and he stole my heart on Easter Sunday. He accompanied me to church and we dated for two years, before I broke his heart. My second love is my ex, I loved him, but did not fall in love until we had our child. I guess planning families, tend to strengthen and enforces the love. He had my heart for seven years until he cheated.
Two great loves, each has its own story and fulfillment.
Twice, I think, but then many times before I thought I was and view those as infatuation. The first one is a situation I guess many would question, since nothing ever came to fruition and we were never able to be together.
Love once. Lust, now that's a different story, there's Brad Pitt and that guy I almost married but then realized in a nick of time, that lust wasn't enough to overcome the crazy or take the place of love. I guess we were both nuts at the time.
But what were we talking about? I got side tracked thinking about the lust. Nothing like that first real taste of being in love and having that someone in love with you at the same time. If it never happens again, I'm happy to know I've experienced being deeply in love, at least once in my lifetime.
Sure I've had other boyfriends, but this relationship was completely unique from the rest, and the love I felt was profound--never loved or cared for another person to such an extent; never met someone with whom I was so compatible; a total and honest acceptance of the other person, faults and all. And we just synched really well. I don't even believe in "soulmates" and yet I thought I had found my counterpart in life. He ended the relationship once it became long-distance.
Crossing my fingers and hoping that won't be the last time I feel that strongly about another person. I'm not easily impressed so I'm a little worried :/
Daily... with somethin With Men? humm I like the "feeling in love" I read in Scott Peck's "The Road Less Traveled" that real true love is a falling, it's a growing. Me, back to daily ha ha ha Still wondering if he's out there somewhere... LOL OMG (really)
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