Why do guys send mix messages (date, boyfriend, how to, woman)

[wonderful28]

I have been talking to this guy on and off for almost 2 years I am 28 he is 25 i am in a relationship with a 33 year old we started having problems around about the time i met the guy and no he was not the reason for our problems I met him after we started having problems we first started out really good until my boyfriend found out about him and then he started calling his phone and after that the guy started pushing me away but here is the strange part every time he sees me out anywhere even if he just sees my car parted in a parking lot at a grocery store is always comes to find me just to see me but then when i start calling him we will talk for a few weeks or days and then he will start to push me away again.

[VRE332]

I think he's afraid of your boyfriend; or he's really not taking you seriously.

[tamitrail]

You probably should post this in the relationshops forum.

[jimboburnsy]

There's a great book about how to tell if a guy is really not that into you. I forget the name...

[vukinjo]

Ummmm....maybe I'm missing something here but YOU are in a relationship and you're saying HE is sending mixed messages?

[Lindsey_Mcfarren]

Originally Posted by jimboburnsy

There's a great book about how to tell if a guy is really not that into you. I forget the name...

I LOVED that book.

He's Just Not That Into You

[Chowhound]

Originally Posted by jimboburnsy

There's a great book about how to tell if a guy is really not that into you. I forget the name...

Funny line, I wonder how many people will catch that.

[ellie]

Originally Posted by Lindsey_Mcfarren

I LOVED that book.

He's Just Not That Into You

That book should be standard reading material for every woman over 18 years of age. It's not 100% right, but it's pretty darn clever.

[undertheironsea]

Originally Posted by wonderful28

I have been talking to this guy on and off for almost 2 years I am 28 he is 25 i am in a relationship with a 33 year old we started having problems around about the time i met the guy and no he was not the reason for our problems I met him after we started having problems we first started out really good until my boyfriend found out about him and then he started calling his phone and after that the guy started pushing me away but here is the strange part every time he sees me out anywhere even if he just sees my car parted in a parking lot at a grocery store is always comes to find me just to see me but then when i start calling him we will talk for a few weeks or days and then he will start to push me away again.

Holy run-on sentences Batman...that was harder to decipher than the Da Vinci Code.

Anyway...maybe he's just trying to get you to leave the leave the other dude? Is it really that hard to figure out? Maybe he wants to date you and wants to show you just enough, but not enough for boyfriend to catch him and kick his nuts through his nose?

We are NOT that hard to figure out, ladies. Quit making it harder than it is.

[Nashcash23]

I think he is scared of your boyfreind. It seems as though he likes you, but is afraid to say so. Perhaps you should just ask him how he feels about you and see what happens.