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Old 06-19-2008, 10:00 PM
 
Location: Eagan, MN
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I need all the advice I can get thanks in advace! I have been with the same guy off and on for a year. We are both 27, but have know each other since 8th grade. He lies and cheats all the time but always sweet talks his way out of it and I fall for it again then again then I find myself crying and all sad and emotional, then he talks his way to me again. I have changed my number 4 times only to call him back with it I have tried so many times to walk away but it seems impossible. I am a cute girl and could find someone else but I always run back to him. So what the heck is wrong with me?
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Old 06-19-2008, 10:06 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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I need all the advice I can get thanks in advace! I have been with the same guy off and on for a year. We are both 27, but have know each other since 8th grade. He lies and cheats all the time but always sweet talks his way out of it and I fall for it again then again then I find myself crying and all sad and emotional, then he talks his way to me again. I have changed my number 4 times only to call him back with it I have tried so many times to walk away but it seems impossible. I am a cute girl and could find someone else but I always run back to him. So what the heck is wrong with me?
Read this fresh out of the oven. It has to be pinned on top of the forum!

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If I didn't manage to make it an anchor link, find butterflygarden's first and only so far post (#249).

OK, it does go straight to the post. That's the only post I've ever seen getting 33 reps in a day!
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Old 06-19-2008, 10:06 PM
 
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Wow, you have a problem. You need to open up a few self help books (regarding dysfunctional relationships and enhancing your self esteem), read them, and then put it into practice ASAP. Key phrase, put it into practice.

You said you are cute. So then go out with your guy friends. If not spend time with other friends or family. Spend time with yourself and don't be such a needy person.





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So what the heck is wrong with me?

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Old 06-19-2008, 10:10 PM
 
Location: AR
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Quit being such a freaking wuss and dump the guy. Find someone else to date.

Not that hard. I don't care if you've known him since your sandbox days, you're a grown woman, quit acting like a teenager that doesn't want to OMG HURT HIS FEEEEEELLLINNNNGGGS.
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Old 06-19-2008, 10:12 PM
 
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Default Magic Words

"I want your baby."

He will leave skidmarks to the door... or open window if closer.
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Old 06-19-2008, 10:12 PM
 
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lol...exactly. Don't be such a feeble weakling.

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Quit being such a freaking wuss and dump the guy. Find someone else to date.

Not that hard. I don't care if you've known him since your sandbox days, you're a grown woman, quit acting like a teenager that doesn't want to OMG HURT HIS FEEEEEELLLINNNNGGGS.
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Old 06-19-2008, 10:13 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Quit being such a freaking wuss and dump the guy. Find someone else to date.

Not that hard. I don't care if you've known him since your sandbox days, you're a grown woman, quit acting like a teenager that doesn't want to OMG HURT HIS FEEEEEELLLINNNNGGGS.
This advise sounds a little harsh but spot on. At some point in your life you will agree
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Old 06-19-2008, 10:13 PM
 
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ewww skidmarks on the door? sick.

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"I want your baby."

He will leave skidmarks to the door... or open window if closer.
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Old 06-19-2008, 10:14 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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"I want your baby."

He will leave skidmarks to the door... or open window if closer.
What a wonderful idea! How did I forget about those?! Yeah... call him a dozen times a day... leave a mushy Hallmark card at his door... of course, the baby goes with a wedding...
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Old 06-19-2008, 10:16 PM
 
Location: Eagan, MN
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You guys are funny! Yes its harsh news but I need to hear it and yes maybe some therapy as well! If it was that easy to leave him I already would've done so.
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