If a guy really likes a girl then will he go after her?
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These days it's better to be the aggressor without being too aggressive (which can also be a turn off for men). You will have to call him, I work with all men mostly your age group - they all tell me the same thing, they aren't mind readers and want the women to call if they want to do something.
Just call!
To the OP: I find myself in this very same situation!!! I met an amazing guy a few weeks ago through mutual friends. We hit it off right away and have very similar interests. We have been seeing each other a lot mostly due to our friends all hanging out. I could tell there was some light flirting going on and that there was something sparking between us but outside of seeing each other out, neither one of us would call or text.
So last weekend we got a little too drunk and hooked up! It was wonderful but I wonder if it was just "because we were drunk". I really hope I didn't mess things up for a potential future here. Besides some emailing we haven't really spoken since the weekend. I hate being the one to call him..why can't he do it!!
I hate dating.
ETA: he's 26, I'm 27, if that helps any.
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