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I had a c-section with my son, so everything was hidden from sight. My son was born with a perfectly round head and was presented to us all fresh, clean and pink. My daughter's birthmom did all the hard work. We missed her birth by a couple of hours. When we saw her, she too was all bundled up, fresh, pink and clean. So no, my husband didnt lose interest in sex with either child. Now if you were asking about him losing interest in sex while I was pregnant? Hmm, that was a completely different story. He wouldn't even approach me from 6 months-birth. He was just like "ugh!"
Are there any other guys out there that were turned off OR turned on by a big pregnant belly?
Pregnant women are sexy. But I think it's a completely different psychological reaction than being turned on by a non-pregnant woman. At least, for me. There's more protectiveness involved, and it's a more primal sort of feeling.
I saw all three of mine being born, I can only speak for myself but after bonding for 10 years with my wifes lower half seeing a brown line go from her navel to her privates, pink turn to brown and seeing a head appear after seeing the movie Alien I started to question my motivation. Questions like do you want to cut the cord?...I think not!, my middle son was born so fast all I remember was him going down a water slide and an intern trying to catch him before he hit the floor. The placenta on a platter and sharing a ward with ten thousand other screaming women. You quit smoking that week!
I've kept all my paper clothes and have recovered without the aid of hand puppets I might add and love my wife and kids to death but I still remember what pain apparently blocked in my wife.
I saw my daughter's birth, and it was the most disgusting thing i ever saw!! blood, urine, etc.... nothing pretty!!!! right now, i'm currently deployed and haven't seen my wife in 6 months. I could careless what comes out of there I miss the hell out of it and her!!! lol
I saw my daughter's birth, and it was the most disgusting thing i ever saw!! blood, urine, etc.... nothing pretty!!!! right now, i'm currently deployed and haven't seen my wife in 6 months. I could careless what comes out of there I miss the hell out of it and her!!! lol
There was an old joke during Vietnam about the guy who had not seen his wife in over a year. He wrote her saying all the things he was going to do to her when he got home and she better have a mattress strapped to her back when he got off the plane.
She replied he better be the 1st guy off the plane.
Be safe over there and we all wish you many fun filled nights with your better half.
I know that it is different with all men (and women), but in my case, the births of our sons took us to a new level of intimacy. Words can't decribe it. And I had to drag him kicking and screaming to the Lamaze classes with the first- same night as Monday night football! But my DH was a total man's man- grew up with brothers, never knew women as a close friend. But that first birth put him in a different mindset.
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