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I recently found out that my husband joined a sort of dating service called Ashley Madison. For those of you who don't know, it is advertised quite a bit on Howard Stern's show, it's a dating site for people who are in committed relationships or married. Yuck, I know. The line I was given from him was that he was just curious about what type of people are on there? Apparently you have to fill out this whole bio on yourself, yada yada, he was looking for something short term? He said that you had to fill in that part to look around. He also said that he hears it all day long as he listens to Howard Stern and was just curious, again.
Last year I almost left him for soing something similar to this, he also said that nothing has ever happened-never cheated. He also went to therapy for a year for the last time.
I could really use some unbiased opinions on this matter. It is entirely to embarrassing to talk to my friends or family about. What would you do? Please advise.
it seems like he's done this before and is back to his old ways with the same tired excuses he's not gonna change
I say dump him
There was a billboard in NYC put up by Ashley Madison. It had a girl sitting on a hotel bed and unzipping a man's pants, and it said, "Life is short, have an affair". I swear, google "Ashley Madison" and click on images.
The nearby residents on Times Square were protesting it so it was removed .... Nice Site it is- promoting adultery.
Been there and done that with my EX-HUSBAND!! Number one, ask yourself, why is he curious about finding out if he's married?!?!? There should be NOTHING out there that will tempt a man to cheat or otherwise if he's married and love his wife!! Secondly, if this is the second time that you've caught him, then there are some serious issues there. Now my mother has always told me, "that if you go looking, eventually you will fine just what you're looking for and then some"! So you need to decide, do you want to wait until he actually commits the "act" or are you going to continue to allow him to do what he's doing? And believe me, there are VARIOUS sites other than this one. So are you sure that he's not on any other sites? Again, my ex-husband did this and more. I found out all his dirty little deeds by putting a website tracker on my computer...and I'm not talking about the website history. So please keep your eyes open....SOME men are great munipulators!! Especially when it's comes to women and p*&^%. Good luck
I once learned that 33% of the men on dating sites are married!!!! I learned this when I was dating and on Match.com. I was really freaked out the whole time and wondering if any of my dates were married.
No such thing as curiousity... Liar Liar Pants on Fire..... He is fishing...
I have heard of AM and I think it's disgusting but I am sure the owner of the site makes a ton of money
I simply cannot believe what the world has come to. My wife and I were married nearly 20 years ago, not much of a plan but two christian people with faith in each other, no money but love. We have been blessed with two children who are great kids. I have worked incredibly hard to get ahead in this life and so has my wife. I suppose there always been little things that we wished we could change, but nobody is perfect, and I have not made a big deal about much at all. I've always had the feeling that my wife had a "wildside" . I began to notice that she was less interested in home life about a year ago.I was suspicous and recently checked our phone records and found a disturbing amount of calls to certain numbers. We had a big fight over what that was all about, tried to ignore the knawing doubt in my stomach. I felt that I must monitor her completely, so I covertly installed WebWatcher to her computer. Found out that she was having an affair which has changed everything for us. I am a good man, I work hard to provide for family because I love them. In one selfish act, my world has exploded and I am not sure I am capable of forgiving the hurt like she wants me to. If were just about me, not our kids and her wonderful parents that would never withstand the heartbreak and embarrassment of what their daughter has done, I would already be gone. Who do I have to thank in part for all of this. Ashley Madison of course. The founder of this organization I am sure is going to sizzle just a little hotter in hell than than the rest. For those of you who cannot put your finger on the change in your spouse, do some research on the signs of an affair and then get to work. Monitor their computers and smartphones, buy a small gps tracking system for their vehicle, call a private detective and stop the thing in its tracks. Get a divorce or seek counselling to see if anything is left. I no longer have desire for my wife, and if we had big problems in our marriage I was certainly the last to know. For all you lonely idiot men out there who think taking a poke at another mans wife is a good thing, give me a call so I can meet with you and rearrange your face. It will take years to rebuild what I once had because of self seeking degenerate scum like yourselves. For all you women who think that it would be exciting to seek the companionship of someone else, just remember behind all the flirtatious sweetalk, the horny prick just wants to **** you and then discard you for the next big thing. Simply not worth the risk.
It sounds like he hasn't cheated (or at least you haven't said if you have reason to think he has) but he is obviously thinking about cheating. Tell him you want couples counciling because it's clear your relationship has problems if he's going to cheater websites.
I recently found out that my husband joined a sort of dating service called Ashley Madison. For those of you who don't know, it is advertised quite a bit on Howard Stern's show, it's a dating site for people who are in committed relationships or married. Yuck, I know. The line I was given from him was that he was just curious about what type of people are on there? Apparently you have to fill out this whole bio on yourself, yada yada, he was looking for something short term? He said that you had to fill in that part to look around. He also said that he hears it all day long as he listens to Howard Stern and was just curious, again.
Last year I almost left him for soing something similar to this, he also said that nothing has ever happened-never cheated. He also went to therapy for a year for the last time.
I could really use some unbiased opinions on this matter. It is entirely to embarrassing to talk to my friends or family about. What would you do? Please advise.
I'm going to tell you, what really drives some on here insane, but since any computer in your home is shared property you have every right to do so...
Download this program, read the instructions. Now EVERYTHING your husband types will be stored for you to read. You won't get the incoming. only what he types.
And when you see "yeah baby, I'll meet you at the hotel at..."
you can thank me, because I'm positive that's what's going on, so are you..but you need like DNA evidence, apparently.
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