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Old 07-08-2008, 01:50 PM
 
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I think its posible that the comment was about more then hair, I also think its posible that men and the OPs husband are completely clueless about the idiotic things they say. That it can come across alot worse then they ever intended.
I agree with Lindsey here, the hair might have been the comment, but it sounds like there is probably a history and an attitude that led up to the upset bothers the opening post person.
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Old 07-08-2008, 02:06 PM
 
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I havent read all of the posts, but Im with cpg and miss martha. Lighten up. I recently started seeing an old friend from high school, initially he kept commenting on how hot I WAS in high school, and how this I WAS and that I WAS. That dosent mean he dosent think Im hot now or he wouldnt be with me. I take it as a compliment.
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Old 07-08-2008, 05:37 PM
 
Location: Fort Worth, Texas
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I just don't think guys minds work the same way ours do. I think sometimes they do say something and its intended to control and push you in a different direction but more often I think they say things and don't mean them the way they can be taken by the listener.

Womens minds work differently then their do.
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Old 07-08-2008, 06:05 PM
 
Location: Whoville....
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I think its posible that the comment was about more then hair, I also think its posible that men and the OPs husband are completely clueless about the idiotic things they say. That it can come across alot worse then they ever intended.
Yes, like when my husband told me "That bathing suit hides a multitude of sins"
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Old 07-08-2008, 06:38 PM
 
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I think its posible that the comment was about more then hair, I also think its posible that men and the OPs husband are completely clueless about the idiotic things they say. That it can come across alot worse then they ever intended.

As a man, I can relate to that, having said many thousands of clueless, idiotic, and unintended things that I later regretted. Foot, meet mouth.
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Old 07-08-2008, 06:41 PM
 
Location: Fort Worth, Texas
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Yes, like when my husband told me "That bathing suit hides a multitude of sins"
NICE !!

I'm sure he really meant that "you look really sexy in that bathing suit".

I don't know about you guys but I am a VERY literal person. I take things in a different way then people sometimes mean. I am aware of it but still sometimes things slip by that I later find out I totally misunderstood.
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Old 07-08-2008, 09:29 PM
 
Location: Wu Dang Mountain
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Yes, like when my husband told me "That bathing suit hides a multitude of sins"
Perhaps he meant that your Goddess-like body was luckily covered from the covetous views of both men and women...
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