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I'm completly the opposite of what you asked me. I'm slim. Girls at my old high school were evil, baby mommas, and bad. Which is why I stayed single. I may be 19, but I know what I want and what I don't want.
Even if I was older, I wouldn't waste my time with women who has or wants kids. Also, I've seen a lot of girls reject guys on television and movies.
So every single girl that you come in contact with is bad and wants to be a teenage mom? I find this hard to believe. Like I said, go to a different environment, get out there and involved in some activity or something that takes you away from these type of girls. However, I honestly think you are generalizing way too much. There are nice sweet girls everywhere that would be only too happy to have a nice boyfriend. Most young men want to be players, so if you were a nice guy prepared to be a nice boyfriend then you should have no trouble. Do you go to church or anything? Cant imagine all the girls are babies mommas there?!
women are much kinder, gentler, nicer, and more realistic and human than they are on TV
start picturing in your mind the qualities you value in the woman you want to be with
(such as honesty, respect, kindness, no kids, sense of humor) NOT APPEARANCE but qualities
and keep in your mind also the things you value in yourself that are positive in relationship (good heart, sense of humor, like to read, play board games, enjoy nature, whatever, but they have to be positive)
Become yourself that which you wish to attract: if it's kindness and gentleness and joyful companionship, begin to exude and practice those yourself.
what we focus our attention on in our thoughts and in our life INCREASES so keep it on good stuff. Because by focusing on the negative (such as women are mean, women only want babies, there are no women for me) in our thoughts, life, and attitudes that is what continues to turn up in our life.
As long as crap hangs out in your thinking you will continue to see it in your life. Make a conscious effort to surround yourself with that which is positive and uplifting, including your surroundings, your thoughts, your music, your reading, the people in your life, conversations, everything. Your life can then not help but match.
Become yourself that which you wish to attract: if it's kindness and gentleness and joyful companionship, begin to exude and practice those yourself.
what we focus our attention on in our thoughts and in our life INCREASES so keep it on good stuff. Because by focusing on the negative (such as women are mean, women only want babies, there are no women for me) in our thoughts, life, and attitudes that is what continues to turn up in our life.
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It won't let me rep you, but I would if I could. This is so true - I know it is easier said than done, but really the OP seems to have an exeptionally negative attitude toward women and a lot of life in general. OP really concentrate on improving YOURSELF and doing stuff that makes YOU a happy, fulfilled person. What DimSum says is really true. Start by smiling more often. It may feel weird to begin with, but keep it up. Smile as often as possible. Smiling is a good start.
So every single girl that you come in contact with is bad and wants to be a teenage mom? I find this hard to believe. Like I said, go to a different environment, get out there and involved in some activity or something that takes you away from these type of girls. However, I honestly think you are generalizing way too much. There are nice sweet girls everywhere that would be only too happy to have a nice boyfriend. Most young men want to be players, so if you were a nice guy prepared to be a nice boyfriend then you should have no trouble. Do you go to church or anything? Cant imagine all the girls are babies mommas there?!
Baby mommas? I don't want to have to deal with baby momma drama. I know there are some women who never want kids, but those are the only women I find attractive. Most guys I went to high school with were players or wannabe thugs. And the girls, they were into the so-called bad boys. Girls pretty much saw as a discounted, which is why I despise those kinds of girls.
Baby mommas? I don't want to have to deal with baby momma drama. I know there are some women who never want kids, but those are the only women I find attractive. Most guys I went to high school with were players or wannabe thugs. And the girls, they were into the so-called bad boys. Girls pretty much saw as a discounted, which is why I despise those kinds of girls.
Sweetie, you seem to miss the point of every post directed at you and need to work on your reading comprehension skills. I said there must be countless places to meet nice girls that dont want a child until either much later in life than 19 or not at all.
You seem religious (since you discussed not wanting to "fornicate" in another thread) so dont you meet any girls at church who aren't ready to be mothers yet?
Do you go to college? You will definitely meet girls that dont want babies there.
So every girl in the whole school was into the bad boys? Well I know how that feels cuz I like the bad boyz myself (though now they're grown men so I prefer the former bad boys that grew out of it), but I know there are also lots of women (I've met many) who hate that type.
Sweetie, you seem to miss the point of every post directed at you and need to work on your reading comprehension skills. I said there must be countless places to meet nice girls that dont want a child until either much later in life than 19 or not at all.
I do go to church, thinking about my future and any relationship I fall in.
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You seem religious (since you discussed not wanting to "fornicate" in another thread) so dont you meet any girls at church who aren't ready to be mothers yet?
Well, I'm 19. I can never tell if they're my match or not. Maybe when I'm older.
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Do you go to college? You will definitely meet girls that dont want babies there.
Yes, I go to college. There were a lot of attractive girls, but each pretty girl I saw, I got suspicious.
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So every girl in the whole school was into the bad boys? Well I know how that feels cuz I like the bad boyz myself (though now they're grown men so I prefer the former bad boys that grew out of it), but I know there are also lots of women (I've met many) who hate that type.
Pretty much yeah. Which is why I stayed to myself, hanging out by myself, attending at a somewhat inner-city high school.
Yea, I can be mean but its the truth. Except he has hair on his head. He's like a Cuban Chia Pet
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