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I think every single women has some sort of beauty about them in the outside. Whether they be fat or skinny, short or tall every women has some feature that stands out and is beautiful. I also understand beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but I think I can spot a woman who is a natural beauty , hot, or just average. The difference between a hot girl and an average girl is that a hot girl usually has everything going on in terms of features most men look for like the booty, breasts, face, legs, while an average girl usually is working with something but not much else.
Than there are women who just have that unique look that appeals to every man like a magnet. These are the women who don't have to put on makeup and they will still look more glamorous than hot girls. Natural beauties when they age still look beautiful and have everything going on, along with special qualities that make them stand out even more.
How rare is it to encounter these natural beauties? I really do think over the past seven years I have only met 3 or 4 natural beauties. I developed a relationship with two of them in the past and I am kicking myself in the head to this day for letting them go. I am realizing that they are rare to encounter in the real world. Hot girls are a dime a dozen, and usually what they have going on the outside disappears when they go through some life event, and you know average girls with average looks are just average and they are common too.
So guys out there would you rather go after a natural beauty, a hot girl, or women with just average looks? My guess is most of you in a relationship are with women with average looks, because they are easy to approach and less likely to reject you cause they probably don't have huge standards compared to hot girls. However, average looking girls tend to have more substance compared to hot girls so that is probably another reason why they are more appealing than hot girls who just have their looks to fall back on. In any case I think I am going to wait for that natural or classic beauty to come my way.
For you ladies, out of all the categories that I listed what fit's you? Are you a natural beauty which I highly doubt, still a hot girl or used to be a hot girl, or a woman with just average looks, nothing special but probably some guy will like you for who you are?
how do you know these knockouts will have you? are YOU something special? cause you sound like an egomaniac!
For you ladies, out of all the categories that I listed what fit's you? Are you a natural beauty which I highly doubt, still a hot girl or used to be a hot girl, or a woman with just average looks, nothing special but probably some guy will like you for who you are?
How can we know which category we fit in? Is that not for other people to judge? Its highly unattractive to preceive yourself as beautiful or hot, this includes both women and men.
Different men call me different things......I get beautiful from the men who fall for my looks and presonality, I get hot from those men who like the look of me but who are not interested in anything other than bringing me to bed, and I also get average from the people who arent interested at all. Being beautifull, hot and average is in the eye of the beholder.
How can we know which category we fit in? Is that not for other people to judge? Its highly unattractive to preceive yourself as beautiful or hot, this includes both women and men.
Different men call me different things......I get beautiful from the men who fall for my looks and presonality, I get hot from those men who like the look of me but who are not interested in anything other than bringing me to bed, and I also get average from the people who arent interested at all. Being beautifull, hot and average is in the eye of the beholder.
Couldn't have said it better myself! Exact same experience here.
I learned years ago to always go after the not so hot babe. The hot one is usually higher maintenance, has relied on her looks & not developed a personality and many times pretty poor in bed.
I remember when I was younger I heard a lot of elder men say Date the hot chicks, but marry the ugly ones.
For me, I really find Plain Janes to be hot. It is a confidence thing.
Years ago I had a roommate who was a beautiful woman, a model. Even as a woman, I was taken in by her looks and ease. She was a divorced with a young son. They moved in to share the house.
Before long her real self became evident. She was a user, a gold digger, and completely absorbed in her looks and what they could get for her. She had no regard for others and ignored her son. I came to realize she was a completely evil person and eventually had to go to court to evict her from the house after she refused to pay the rent, ran up hundreds of dollars of phone bills, had a parade of men through the house, drank furiously, and often left me with her son for days.
That was 25 years ago and I'll never forget her. One of the best looking women I've ever known. And the nastiest.
It would be interesting to see this woman today. She's probably lost her looks, been married 6 times and her kids are all drug addicts.
I'm quite comfortable with how I look and who I am. So I really don't feel the need to label myself in one of your categories.
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