Mentally Unstable Men (women, love, attracted, emotionally)

[sadgirl80]

Do all women avoid emotionally unstable guys who exhibit erratic behavior like the plague? Is it necessarily bad news or do you not shut the door immediately and give it a chance to see how you can care for somebody out of love?

What about men? Same for you guys?

[TheBigGuy]

There are no shortage of women who gravitate toward mentally unstable men. That's a fact.

There are no shortage of men who gravitate toward mentally unstable women. That's a fact.

[sadgirl80]

There also seems to be no shortage of mentally and emotionally unstable men and women around.

[TheBigGuy]

What makes you think that you, yourself, are mentally stable?

[findly185]

I've dated some men with serious mental health issues.

Seems they are drawn to me...or me to them...idk.

[Tintlelli]

Women should avoid "emotionally unstable guys who exhibit erratic behavior" at all costs, but they do not. Such a person is bad news, and there is not enough love in the world to make him better.

[sadgirl80]

Originally Posted by TheBigGuy

What makes you think that you, yourself, are mentally stable?

Definitely I do not. I feel I have bipolar tendencies.

I seem to attract emotionally and mentally unstable crazies and I seem to be attracted to them also...Either that, or I just have bad luck when it comes to love.

[erjunkee]

OP, you can care for someone out of love, but you should not do so with the hopes that your "love" will change that person.

If you do, you're setting yourself up for a lifetime of hurt and misery.

[EntropyGuardian]

There are tons of people who *aren't* mentally unstable who are available to date.

Never settle.

[2mares]

Originally Posted by sadgirl80

Do all women avoid emotionally unstable guys who exhibit erratic behavior like the plague? Is it necessarily bad news or do you not shut the door immediately and give it a chance to see how you can care for somebody out of love?

What about men? Same for you guys?

Yes because all women, every last one of them, think the exact same thoughts and experience the exact same emotions and demonstrate the exact same behaviors.

Seriously, no, but people would be wise to do so.