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What do you do when you're obsessed with someone?
I mean, there's this guy at work who I like & long story short, we finally "got together" eh hem...
So after that, he never calls or texts, but everytime he sees me he looks happy & stares at me - I mean, obviously he liked me or we never would've gotten together to begin with!
I thought it might've been that he thought I wanted a bf.
So I texted him that I don't & we should be sex friends.
I mean, if you don't want a gf, you'd want sex friends wouldn't you?!
So I thought maybe I'm too "permiscuous" for him.. (he's a Scorpio)
But it drives me nuts because not ONLY do I have a thing for him, but I have an insane curiosity - I always need to know WHY!!!
Whatever the reason - I just wanna know!!! I even asked him - he said it was partly cause we worked together. I also think I'm too "weird" (eh hem) for him...
But I wanna know!
And then there's my ego.
I mean, how could he NOT like me?
I happen to have the fortunate gift of always getting who I want.
And I DID get him!
But only once.
And I want more.
But I wish I would just get over it.
But it gnaws at me & drives me crazy!!!
Talk amongst yahselves...
What do you do when you're obsessed with someone?
I mean, there's this guy at work who I like & long story short, we finally "got together" eh hem...
So after that, he never calls or texts, but everytime he sees me he looks happy & stares at me - I mean, obviously he liked me or we never would've gotten together to begin with!
I thought it might've been that he thought I wanted a bf.
So I texted him that I don't & we should be sex friends.
I mean, if you don't want a gf, you'd want sex friends wouldn't you?!
So I thought maybe I'm too "permiscuous" for him.. (he's a Scorpio)
But it drives me nuts because not ONLY do I have a thing for him, but I have an insane curiosity - I always need to know WHY!!!
Whatever the reason - I just wanna know!!! I even asked him - he said it was partly cause we worked together. I also think I'm too "weird" (eh hem) for him...
But I wanna know!
And then there's my ego.
I mean, how could he NOT like me?
I happen to have the fortunate gift of always getting who I want.
And I DID get him!
But only once.
And I want more.
But I wish I would just get over it.
But it gnaws at me & drives me crazy!!!
Talk amongst yahselves...
sorry but it sounds like you are just another notch on his belt. you made it easy to get it, he got it, and now he is no longer curious.
i dont know if there could be another reason. if he was worried about it being wierd around work he wouldnt have been with you in the first place. he is just using now, it as an excuse.
sorry but it sounds like you are just another notch on his belt. you made it easy to get it, he got it, and now he is no longer curious.
i dont know if there could be another reason. if he was worried about it being wierd around work he wouldnt have been with you in the first place. he is just using now, it as an excuse.
I agree! Next time you use your "fortunate gift" try not to take him to the bedroom first thing.
Risky business to get involved with someone at place of employment. Now you will either see him everyday at work and wonder or else go find another job to escape this insanity!
What do you do when you're obsessed with someone?
I mean, there's this guy at work who I like & long story short, we finally "got together" eh hem...
So after that, he never calls or texts, but everytime he sees me he looks happy & stares at me - I mean, obviously he liked me or we never would've gotten together to begin with!
I thought it might've been that he thought I wanted a bf.
So I texted him that I don't & we should be sex friends.
I mean, if you don't want a gf, you'd want sex friends wouldn't you?!
So I thought maybe I'm too "permiscuous" for him.. (he's a Scorpio)
But it drives me nuts because not ONLY do I have a thing for him, but I have an insane curiosity - I always need to know WHY!!!
Whatever the reason - I just wanna know!!! I even asked him - he said it was partly cause we worked together. I also think I'm too "weird" (eh hem) for him...
But I wanna know!
And then there's my ego.
I mean, how could he NOT like me?
I happen to have the fortunate gift of always getting who I want.
And I DID get him!
But only once.
And I want more.
But I wish I would just get over it.
But it gnaws at me & drives me crazy!!!
Talk amongst yahselves...
Sorry Elf, your a $lut. Not much fun to chase, and don't know where ya been......if your that easy. I'm sure your pretty, and a nice person........but your legs........well.......keep them together a bit longer, eh?
If you just want someone for sex, power to ya. But sometime your gonna have to grow up. Most of us got that outta our system in HS and college.....did you not get enough then?
I'm not bash'n ya, just my thoughts. You can sleep and do who/what/where/when/why. Just how I see it today.
sorry elf, your a $lut. Not much fun to chase, and don't know where ya been......if your that easy. I'm sure your pretty, and a nice person........but your legs........well.......keep them together a bit longer, eh?
If you just want someone for sex, power to ya. But sometime your gonna have to grow up. Most of us got that outta our system in hs and college.....did you not get enough then?
I'm not bash'n ya, just my thoughts. You can sleep and do who/what/where/when/why. Just how i see it today.
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