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Old 08-03-2008, 02:36 AM
 
Location: FL
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What do you do when you're obsessed with someone?
I mean, there's this guy at work who I like & long story short, we finally "got together" eh hem...
So after that, he never calls or texts, but everytime he sees me he looks happy & stares at me - I mean, obviously he liked me or we never would've gotten together to begin with!
I thought it might've been that he thought I wanted a bf.
So I texted him that I don't & we should be sex friends.
I mean, if you don't want a gf, you'd want sex friends wouldn't you?!
So I thought maybe I'm too "permiscuous" for him.. (he's a Scorpio)
But it drives me nuts because not ONLY do I have a thing for him, but I have an insane curiosity - I always need to know WHY!!!
Whatever the reason - I just wanna know!!! I even asked him - he said it was partly cause we worked together. I also think I'm too "weird" (eh hem) for him...
But I wanna know!
And then there's my ego.
I mean, how could he NOT like me?
I happen to have the fortunate gift of always getting who I want.
And I DID get him!
But only once.
And I want more.
But I wish I would just get over it.
But it gnaws at me & drives me crazy!!!
Talk amongst yahselves...
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Old 08-03-2008, 03:26 AM
 
Location: Las Vegas, NV
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Read the book by Greg Behrendt "He's Just Not that into you".. It's a page turner!

(Even though I don't necessarily agree with him making it such a point that us women have to let the guy call us..)
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Old 08-03-2008, 03:52 AM
 
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What do you do when you're obsessed with someone?
I mean, there's this guy at work who I like & long story short, we finally "got together" eh hem...
So after that, he never calls or texts, but everytime he sees me he looks happy & stares at me - I mean, obviously he liked me or we never would've gotten together to begin with!
I thought it might've been that he thought I wanted a bf.
So I texted him that I don't & we should be sex friends.
I mean, if you don't want a gf, you'd want sex friends wouldn't you?!
So I thought maybe I'm too "permiscuous" for him.. (he's a Scorpio)
But it drives me nuts because not ONLY do I have a thing for him, but I have an insane curiosity - I always need to know WHY!!!
Whatever the reason - I just wanna know!!! I even asked him - he said it was partly cause we worked together. I also think I'm too "weird" (eh hem) for him...
But I wanna know!
And then there's my ego.
I mean, how could he NOT like me?
I happen to have the fortunate gift of always getting who I want.
And I DID get him!
But only once.
And I want more.
But I wish I would just get over it.
But it gnaws at me & drives me crazy!!!
Talk amongst yahselves...

sorry but it sounds like you are just another notch on his belt. you made it easy to get it, he got it, and now he is no longer curious.
i dont know if there could be another reason. if he was worried about it being wierd around work he wouldnt have been with you in the first place. he is just using now, it as an excuse.
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Old 08-03-2008, 04:59 AM
 
Location: Tennessee
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sorry but it sounds like you are just another notch on his belt. you made it easy to get it, he got it, and now he is no longer curious.
i dont know if there could be another reason. if he was worried about it being wierd around work he wouldnt have been with you in the first place. he is just using now, it as an excuse.
I agree! Next time you use your "fortunate gift" try not to take him to the bedroom first thing.
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Old 08-03-2008, 05:02 AM
 
Location: Under the SUNNY WARM SUN ....
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Risky business to get involved with someone at place of employment. Now you will either see him everyday at work and wonder or else go find another job to escape this insanity!
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Old 08-03-2008, 09:27 AM
 
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What do you do when you're obsessed with someone?
I mean, there's this guy at work who I like & long story short, we finally "got together" eh hem...
So after that, he never calls or texts, but everytime he sees me he looks happy & stares at me - I mean, obviously he liked me or we never would've gotten together to begin with!
I thought it might've been that he thought I wanted a bf.
So I texted him that I don't & we should be sex friends.
I mean, if you don't want a gf, you'd want sex friends wouldn't you?!
So I thought maybe I'm too "permiscuous" for him.. (he's a Scorpio)
But it drives me nuts because not ONLY do I have a thing for him, but I have an insane curiosity - I always need to know WHY!!!
Whatever the reason - I just wanna know!!! I even asked him - he said it was partly cause we worked together. I also think I'm too "weird" (eh hem) for him...
But I wanna know!
And then there's my ego.
I mean, how could he NOT like me?
I happen to have the fortunate gift of always getting who I want.
And I DID get him!
But only once.
And I want more.
But I wish I would just get over it.
But it gnaws at me & drives me crazy!!!
Talk amongst yahselves...
Sorry Elf, your a $lut. Not much fun to chase, and don't know where ya been......if your that easy. I'm sure your pretty, and a nice person........but your legs........well.......keep them together a bit longer, eh?

If you just want someone for sex, power to ya. But sometime your gonna have to grow up. Most of us got that outta our system in HS and college.....did you not get enough then?

I'm not bash'n ya, just my thoughts. You can sleep and do who/what/where/when/why. Just how I see it today.

Be careful Elf, just be careful.
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Old 08-03-2008, 04:08 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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sorry elf, your a $lut. Not much fun to chase, and don't know where ya been......if your that easy. I'm sure your pretty, and a nice person........but your legs........well.......keep them together a bit longer, eh?

If you just want someone for sex, power to ya. But sometime your gonna have to grow up. Most of us got that outta our system in hs and college.....did you not get enough then?

I'm not bash'n ya, just my thoughts. You can sleep and do who/what/where/when/why. Just how i see it today.

Be careful elf, just be careful.
yep.
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Old 08-03-2008, 04:26 PM
 
Location: in my imagination
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sounds like the bad girl has been outwitted by a badboy.


for whatever reason he tried it and maybe once was enough.Or maybe he'll let you know when he has the urge again.

Always get what you want eh?Guess this time you didn't.


why?............why what?If you are going to be friends with benefits then there is no reason to account to the other person.
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Old 08-03-2008, 04:54 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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I mean, there's this guy at work who I like & long story short, we finally "got together" eh hem...

...
There is nothing more. The rest is blah, blah, blah, blah...
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Old 08-03-2008, 05:13 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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What do you do when you're obsessed with someone?
I try to un-obsess. It ain't easy...
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