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Old 08-11-2008, 09:56 AM
 
Location: Colmbus
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I agree with you SAN ANTOQT .....

Is there any other stories out there of partners that are saying things then trying to pass them off as jokes or test?

Anybody have anything???? Maybe this only happens to me?
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Old 08-11-2008, 10:08 AM
 
Location: Cairo - Egypt
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She plays games ... and not clear. or Maybe she wants you to be jealous.
She confuses me either.

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Old 08-11-2008, 10:10 AM
 
Location: Columbia Maryland
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I think there are inner desires that being expressed. She's done this before, more than once, and nothing happened. Yeah right.

The trust issues are already there. When you say you have to be careful and really watch her, that alone, should be telling you that it is time to move on.
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Old 08-11-2008, 10:12 AM
 
Location: Stanwood, Washington
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Also, does anyone else have examples of their partner making comments like this that makes us wonder if maybe they are really not joking at all?
Dump her, she is playing with you. Find a girl who keeps it real. Or continue to live the drama.

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Old 08-11-2008, 10:30 AM
 
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I already know to be careful with her and watch her closely.
Is this how you want to live? Sounds miserable to me.
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Old 08-11-2008, 12:58 PM
 
Location: in my mind
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I think there are inner desires that being expressed. She's done this before, more than once, and nothing happened. Yeah right.

The trust issues are already there. When you say you have to be careful and really watch her, that alone, should be telling you that it is time to move on.
I tend to agree here. I would suspect she HAS done things like that before but she's afraid you'll label her a tramp if you know about it... so she mentions it hoping you'll say "Oh that's hot".

Just my guess.

I don't think there's a need to vilify her but it does sound like she might not be a match for you, if this is the kind of thing she desires (secretly or otherwise)... maybe she is just not into monogamy? Not everyone is.
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Old 08-11-2008, 01:09 PM
 
Location: San Diego, CA
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I don't think there's a need to vilify her but it does sound like she might not be a match for you, if this is the kind of thing she desires (secretly or otherwise)... maybe she is just not into monogamy? Not everyone is.
I agree completely. Nothing "bad" about what she likes, they're just not a good match.
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Old 08-11-2008, 01:13 PM
 
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TONY, on this thread, you said you have a girlfriend, but you have another thread where you said you're LOOKING FOR an Asian woman. My, my, are you "window shopping" before dumping your GF?
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Old 08-11-2008, 01:14 PM
 
Location: in my mind
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I agree with you SAN ANTOQT .....

Is there any other stories out there of partners that are saying things then trying to pass them off as jokes or test?

Anybody have anything???? Maybe this only happens to me?
My ex (the liar/cheater/betrayer of all) used to say "joking" suggestive/sexual things about my good looking female friends... and later on I found out that he was indeed making passes, SERIOUS passes at them, while we were married, if by chance they stopped by when I was at the grocery store or whatever. So it was not just a "joke" in my case.
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Old 08-11-2008, 03:17 PM
 
Location: in my imagination
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continue doing her............don't marry her.Don't love her too much,it will only make it harder on yourself when you do what has to be done,which is show her the door.


Or just say goodbye now.....up to you.



Hint?You are having a glimpse into the future IMO.

(you) "honey I'm home"

(her from the bedroom) "oh sh**"
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