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I never dated a girl who I thought was ugly because I dated to get sex. And I only had sex with people who I was attracted to. Except for that one time during my freshman year in college when some random girl said she liked my sweater. Next thing you know we're in the car getting busy. She was average at best, even considering the quantity of Everclear I had consumed. But she did have certain physical attributes that were above average. Can you guess what "they" were?
We can play the whole PC "everyone is beautiful" game all day long, but the fact is a lot of people are ugly, more people are just average, some people are somewhat decent looking, and few are very attractive. It's just the reality. I'm not even sure why, you'd think nature wouldn't be so harsh in creating only some good looking people and mostly not very good looking ones. It's kind of awkward, haha.
I would never date anyone who wasn't attractive. Even settling for cute is tough, I mean for me personally, a lot of times I just see a super hot model and think, that's what I want, I don't care if it's short even, but I want to be like, heck yeah I dated a girl who was extremely hot. It's annoying settling for less than that.
I have a lot of great, smart, awesome guy friends... when it comes to girls, I want a girl who is very attractive. That's why I even care about a relationship in the first place. I already get everything else I need from my guy friends. And while it's nice to "feel loved" or whatever, honestly I'm not that type of person who considers it to be some sort of ideal. Maybe I'm just not insecure enough for that emotion to take root. I love myself and enjoy life, that is enough for me. Everything else is a wonderful bonus.
I don't like the ugly / pretty thing going on here, and I don't think of myself as a judgemental person at all - especially when it comes to looks...
However, I will admit to having dated some ugly mofos. There's no ifs ands or buts about it, they were just not conventionally attractive, but I will tell you I had the best times with some of them. I would do it again, for sure!
"It's what's on the inside that counts" -- that's just what ugly people say.
I'm not ugly and I've said that on occasion.
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