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Old 08-16-2008, 02:42 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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in the past, yes faked it with men
why? preserve their ego, keep the peace, keep them from going on and on and on just get it over with and get off me, easier than showing him what he was not doing right, tired and wanted to go to sleep

eventually i had to face the dishonesty in my behavior, and this led me to changing my behavior, no more faking it, as an act of honesty and self-respect, and trying to do healthier relationships across the board. A related corollarly for me is no more faking making noises of excitement during the act, unless they were genuine. These days since i have healthier relationships from the get go, there is no longer any need to fake it
Good for you
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Old 08-16-2008, 02:43 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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let's hope the percentage of women who have "faked it" is not as high as the number of men who have falsely blurted out, "i love you".
roflao
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Old 08-16-2008, 02:53 PM
 
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Let's hope the percentage of women who have "faked it" is not as high as the number of men who have falsely blurted out, "I love you".
great correlation there!

it's hard not to bust out laughing when the only time a guy says "i love you" is when he's in bed or trying to get you there!
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Old 08-16-2008, 03:01 PM
 
Location: Wu Dang Mountain
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Let's hope the percentage of women who have "faked it" is not as high as the number of men who have falsely blurted out, "I love you".
I truly look forward to the day when they invent a little box that will shock the gonads just moments before the "L" word is uttered inappropriately...
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Old 08-16-2008, 03:25 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Let's hope the percentage of women who have "faked it" is not as high as the number of men who have falsely blurted out, "I love you".
It's probably about the same.
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Old 08-16-2008, 04:19 PM
 
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It's probably about the same.
they're probably even in the same couples
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Old 08-16-2008, 05:20 PM
 
Location: Indiana
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Had to fake it with my first husband, my second never. Apparently when all the cool guys were getting lucky, my gangly nerd of a honey was studying female anatomy and response The results? FAB U GASMIC!

Signed, Fabumom and , O just one more.
There I'm done
I think
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Old 08-16-2008, 05:43 PM
 
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Had to fake it with my first husband, my second never. Apparently when all the cool guys were getting lucky, my gangly nerd of a honey was studying female anatomy and response The results? FAB U GASMIC!

i love this! this made my day in the laughter dept! ROFL

my first husband had not been with anyone when we got together and was a very eager pupil (yes, also a scientist, so observing stimulus response made sense to him) so i got to show him how it's done and train him in the this-is-what-you-do department; after 14 years we got divorced and then later he remarried. I have felt like telling the new wife, "You can thank me for his skills in the bedroom department," which is a hilarious scene in my head, but somehow i don't think trophy wife would appreciate it!
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Old 08-16-2008, 05:54 PM
 
Location: Indiana
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Yes, you should say that it would be funny. And I should say" you had 10 years to find it and he found it in 2 minutes" to my unfaithful ex.

But we don't say things like that do we princessRaja because we are "ladies".

at least out of the bedroom!
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Old 08-16-2008, 07:36 PM
 
Location: Jersey in da Citi!!
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I don't see why a woman would fake it. My male ego isn't so fragile as to fall apart because a woman doesn't have an O. Mrs Chowhound let's me know explicitly when things aren't up to snuff.

I read somewhere, not sure where, but that some huge percentage of females can't have an O through just intercourse alone. I'm not sure of the percent but I remember thinking it was pretty large.
Thats verrrry true..and just because you can't have an O during intercourse..doesnt mean that you dnt enjoy it, its just not your way to get off!!
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