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If sex is important to you, you'd better pick someone who shares these values or you will be miserable. However, some men would rather be miserable than deal with their greatest fear, that sexual women will be unfaithful. Your call.
As a married man, I pretty much agree with your friends. I'd be wary of marrying a woman who was too easy -- I wouldn't be totally closed to the idea of marrying a woman who slept with me on the first date, but that would be a big, big check against her.
So how big is YOUR check mark that YOU had sex with her on the first date or does it not matter at all in your case because you are a MAN?