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Old 08-22-2008, 03:19 PM
 
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Hi WhoMe,
Cute name;however, I hate to tell you this but practically every person I've met in real life is a control freak....so you must be some real lucky lady that lives in a wonderful paradise magical fantasy land that I know nothing about....lol

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I am so happy that question has never entered into any relationship I've had.... I prefer psychologically sound people around me...not control freaks.
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Old 08-22-2008, 03:20 PM
 
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I think I do, DH is sure that he does. He's wrong, of course!

In terms of chores, DH does most of the laundry and I do the cleaning, dishwashing and I have even been cooking more in 2008. In fact I probably cook 5 nights out of 7.

In terms of decision making we are very equal. Big decisions are always made together.
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Old 08-22-2008, 03:21 PM
 
Location: SUNNY AZ
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I think I do, DH is sure that he does. He's wrong, of course!

In terms of chores, DH does most of the laundry and I do the cleaning, dishwashing and I have even been cooking more in 2008. In fact I probably cook 5 nights out of 7.

In terms of decision making we are very equal. Big decisions are always made together.
see all us smart women know this is how it works.....they think they wear the pants, we let them think they wear the pants.......everyone is happy
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Old 08-22-2008, 03:22 PM
 
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riiight leave it up to women to marry men who have much much lower IQ than them....there is your answer right there.

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see all us smart women know this is how it works.....they think they wear the pants, we let them think they wear the pants.......everyone is happy
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Old 08-22-2008, 03:23 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Maybe later.
Those won't be the same later...
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Old 08-22-2008, 03:24 PM
 
Location: SUNNY AZ
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riiight leave it up to women to marry men who have much much lower IQ than them....there is your answer right there.
ohhhhh geez.....

okay.....I'm outa here for the weekend!!! Have a great weekend ya'll!!!! see ya monday
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Old 08-22-2008, 03:33 PM
 
Location: TX
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Those won't be the same later...
Moments pass and then they return.

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ohhhhh geez.....

okay.....I'm outa here for the weekend!!! Have a great weekend ya'll!!!! see ya monday
Adios and party hard!
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Old 08-22-2008, 03:50 PM
 
Location: San Diego, CA
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Wow....I didn't even know people used that phrase anymore!

Women have been wearing pants for well over 100 years(and maybe before that)....are you referring to who controls who in a "relationship".

Wouldn't a more appropriate phrase be " who is the most dominant and controlling"?

I am so happy that question has never entered into any relationship I've had.... I prefer psychologically sound people around me...not control freaks.
Apparently, everyone who answered knew what was meant.
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Old 08-22-2008, 03:54 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Moments pass and then they return.
Nah... they don't...
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Old 08-22-2008, 04:00 PM
 
Location: at home
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I would say I wear the pants, but whatever she wants she gets. I can be the big tough one that runs the show, but only with her approval!!

I cut the grass, work all day in a hot factory, work on the truck, scare off would be suitors and carry heavy things. She smiles and I am helpless!!
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